What's love?

Question

What does it feel when in love? He said he loved me and wish I can be his gf. Because of personal reasons, I rejected him though we have close contacts via sms all the while. I encouraged him to go after my colleague who just joined us. When she joined, I shared what I know with her. Within a few weeks time, he and she get together. I felt betrayed and sad. What's love? Is it something that change this fast? Did he really love me or take pity or me? Can I blame him for this or it's my fault? I can't help it... though I loved him very much. Was very sad ever since then. Can't face him or her. Mind in a maze...

Answer 1

When strong it's true. When true,it's a many splendored thing.
It's a good, usually (but I guess not always) strong feeling. You can't help or stop thinking about the person you love. You want to be with that person. You some times feel naieve. You're happier when with the person, than when not. When you lose that someone, you feel, for a time (could be 2 years or more) you feel like you should hang yourself, or something. You cry every time you think of person, but can't help it, easily. You can face him, sweety,just not right now, but you can. It was your half your fault. You see, you felt betrayed when the other girl did what you told her, too. On the other hand she did it. And he fell for her.
The fault line is never 100%, but often 50/50 and some times divided into three 25s or less. You have to contact him, or over come him. How long it takes you to contact him, is up to you, long as you do it. Good luck! If you're older than 20, I'm still available in every capacity. Everybody needs a friend, now and then.

Answer 2

Love is not attraction. It is constant and doesn't change with the wind. Love is accepting someones flaws when it would be easier to hate them.

Answer 3

Love and friendship are two difference issue.

Answer 4

dont know dont care