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I was just wondering if i called or texted my husband while i was 3,000 miles away a couple days and just told him i loved and missed him. He got mad and said that his guys girl didnt call him that much and that he was annoyed by my phone calls. I am really hurting right now. I dont know what to do, i just missed him. But he got mad and said i was annoying. Please help me. I dont know weathet or not i should leave him. I dont feel loved at all!!!!!

2007-03-06 15:08:45 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

28 answers

Don't leave him just let. You both need time to cool off. Then when you are face to face or least on the phone, you can talk about it. Please don't jump to conclusions because you'll just torture yourself. Since he's your husband, it's especially important that you communicate with him. Tell him how you feel. I'm surprised that he was annoyed with your loving gesture. If it's an ongoing occurrence, then you might need counseling.

Good luck.

2007-03-06 15:11:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Okaty, I think you can discount all the answers about him being a jerk and to dump him because all those answers were from 15 yearolds. This is your husband, you don't dump him because you felt hurt (and he possibly doesn't even realised he hurt you).
your message was pretty short so what I want to know is, are you two often 3,000 miles apart? Does he or do you have a job that means you're often apart?
If its a regular thing that you talk on the phone thousands of miles apart, then I think that its just difficult to communicate when you can't be together and if this was a rare occasion that you spoke on the phone, I think its the confusion of medium (its weird talking on the phone to someone you see face to face usually)
I'm sure that you two will sort it out when you do get to see eachother face to face.
Don't take to heart all the answers you got. I think that some people who answer can't put themselves in your shoes. You feel bad now but this is not an issue where you have to consider leaving him
Good luck

2007-03-06 15:30:20 · answer #2 · answered by glim 2 · 0 0

i don't think u should leave him you know men they take out thier problem on other things to avoid dealing with what is really wrong i would just sudgest to not call him for a while like at all until you get home avoid him. B/c he'll wonder what is up. ANd when he asks you just say i'm sorry i didn't want to annoy you since thats all i'm doing. It will be a reality check ya kno but 1st see if something is wrong and try to talk to him about it. He just could be hiding something

Good Luck and God Bless! Hope this helps if not i hope someone else gives u the right feed back

2007-03-06 15:16:35 · answer #3 · answered by Happily Taken 2 · 0 0

He could be smoking that white, lol...j/k.
But seriously, this is your husband, he should love to recieve text messages from you. I've noticed in the past that when my bf is cheating he won't answer my calls or text (I'm not trying to make any assumptions). However, you do deserve more than that. He's being a jerk! It may be because he misses you and his testosterone won't let him express his true inner feelings or he may have personal issues that he is having trouble dealing with.

Is he the jealous type? If so, he may just hate that your so far away and now have access to other men. Who knows.

Just give it two days, call him and see what's up. If he continues like this for awhile. . .he may be doing something wrong :-( It's up to you to decide if your willing to tolerate this or move on.

2007-03-06 15:19:13 · answer #4 · answered by Psalms 2 · 0 0

Well I'm sorry to here your dilemma, you should listen to what your gut instinct is telling you. If it matters here is what I see.

1. Take hold of your feelings.
2. Your husbands friends are not married to you, so you should nip that comment in the butt.
3. If he's telling you that you are annoying what are you doing with an A**H*** like that
4. With his attitude and comments towards you calling because you miss and love him, he's obviously has something to hide
5. Either leave him or find a lover who will appreciate the affection you have to give.

2007-03-06 15:19:47 · answer #5 · answered by WSH 1 · 0 0

What a jerk. I would so feel unloved and unappreciated. Wow. Your in a tough spot. Easy to say but you deserve much better treatment and this kind of behavior would make me fill that he has something else going on. Most people who love each other woudnt do this. I waas upset because my husband said ok when I said I loved him while he was on a business trip come to find out he called me later to tell me how much he loved me and he was with his clients at the time Isaid that. Although i wasnt thrilled about it I was so glad he called back to day he loved me and text me a kiss. You deserve much more. Your man..In my opinion is a selfish,conseated controlling jerk and he needs to kiss the ground you walk on.

2007-03-06 15:15:05 · answer #6 · answered by Wolf woman 2 · 0 0

Wow, I would be very hurt too. Was he maybe having a bad day? Does he do this frequently or not often at all? If he does this frequently or acts coldly to you, this sounds like it is somewhat abusive behavior toward you and you should not put up with it.

If he was a loving husband, he would respond in a loving way back to you.

2007-03-06 15:13:36 · answer #7 · answered by peace_love_granola 3 · 0 0

Either way he is being a straight up jerk babe .
But it depends if you have had a long relationship with him going for a while im sure you can work things out .
But if you just started dating him then I would break up .
He could have been having a bad day ....
But you should definitley tell him how you feel about this and see what he says
~much luck

2007-03-06 15:13:51 · answer #8 · answered by lovehate 1 · 0 0

Well what you need to do is to get it turned around where he is calling you, missing and wanting to be near you. You need to become full of joy sister. Everyone wants to be around people who are happy, interesting and full of love and joy and confidence. You need a life-You need Jesus. He is the way and the truth and the life; He has always been the answer.

Heavenly Father, you are Holy Father God and we praise you and give you all glory. Father, you know everything in your precious daughter's heart, by your power and your Holy Spirit Father convict her heart in Jesus precious name; Amen.

Now repeat these words and mean them in your heart: I am a sinner in need of a savior; Jesus I believe you died on the cross for my sins and the Father rose you again three days later, come into my heart, be the Lord of my life and my best friend and by your power and your Holy Spirit guide me all the days of my life; in Jesus Christ's precious name; Amen.

Now put on your dancing shoes sister because you've got a song worth singing. Start going to a Christian church; surround yourself with your spiritual brothers and sisters and volunteer-volunteer-volunteer. Have the pastor's wife pray with you and just watch the power of God move in your life. He will bring your husband around. There is nothing God can't do and He wants to bless you very much. He has been knocking and now you have answered.

He will give you all of your hearts desires...
I was once in your exact position....my husband does all the calling now....
Trust Jesus-and see how faithful He is...
Sista C

2007-03-06 15:28:51 · answer #9 · answered by sista c 3 · 0 0

If its a common thing then maybe you should consider leaving but if its a rare thing sometimes it could be he us just annoyed with the world and you happen to be part of it. He may just ahve wanted to be alone and you happened to interrupt time he wanted to himself don't feel unloved if it is an uncommon thing just try and not think about it and he should be fine later

2007-03-06 15:13:08 · answer #10 · answered by TheOneNOnlyTK 3 · 0 0

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