trusting someone is really something to hold on to but only to find in the end that he was betraying you...would you call that true love?? giving him all you've got and recieving nothing back from the one you love.....Plis help me out with this???
2007-03-06 15:06:53 · 14 answers · asked by frankrr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
part of life..and learning..growing...
be careful when you give your heart....
yes..we've all been hurt at some point..and leanred from it...
the good part is that you have the ability to love...
don't let this experience turn you off.....
just learn from it..move on..and be careful...good luck.....
2007-03-06 15:11:14 · answer #1 · answered by manhattanmaryanne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no hun thats not true love. In a reall loving relationship the give and take is equal - not one sided. Of course there will be times when one is more selfish than the other - or expects more - but this demand isnt constant. Some people are naturally selfish and expect everything whilst giving nothing in return be it emotional feeling or materialistic goods.
We all make the mistakes like you describe - shut out the obvious and live in the hope the other person will start treating us the same way we treat them - but mostly it just doesnt happen.
you've realised now that it wasnt worth it - and hopefully will learn from your mistakes .
xx
2007-03-07 04:32:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mum always said -- never trust any one -- not a 100% anyway -- and i never did until i met my boyfriend (now ex) we had been together about 4 years and for the first time ever i really felt that i could trust him, and that was a really big thing for me,i let my guard down and felt i really was in the position to say that he would never do any thing to hurt me!! But oh was i wrong --- he had been emailing some girl from his work all those times he said he was looking at cars and other rubbish on eBay he was actually chatting up other girls on the net!!! I couldn't believe it!! But I'm not Genna say i will never trust a man again --- but i defiantly will be more wary next time round.Trust is a hard thing to gain and when its broken its hard to ever really get it back from that person! Just learn from it but dont let it stop you from moving on and trusting someone else in the future!! x
2007-03-07 04:41:36 · answer #3 · answered by jo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be so easy to be flippant here but I do feel your pain. Unfortunately in life this happens and we are supposed to pick ourselves up and move on but the next time we give a little less and then less until we reach a balance and then we either meet someone who deserves unconditional love or we don't, maybe we have children and we discover for the first time what unconditional love is and that is when we really don't need it because it really is all in the giving.
I hope that does not sound too stupid but I really don't care because I know what I mean and I'm sure that others will too.
2007-03-06 23:31:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes it can hurt soo much, the one who loves should do nothing to hurt you wether it is to lie, cheat hit u etc. Just learn that u r sincere and truthfull and you r the honourable one and may you soon recieve happiness. May he deserves another chance but u need to draw a line on how many chances he gets and will he change
2007-03-06 23:13:44 · answer #5 · answered by ibs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with loving whole heartedly, but one must ease into such a committment or the heart ache can be devastating....I loved my ex-wife for many many years until she broke my heart...but I still cherish those loving years, so much that I look forward to a loving relationship again...perhaps you loved to quickly...take it easy...its a two way street, give and take...don't enter blindly.
2007-03-06 23:13:46 · answer #6 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is true love - on your part. Always love like this - whatever the outcome of the previous relationships.
Without hope there isn't much else.
2007-03-07 15:43:41 · answer #7 · answered by intelligentbutdizzy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it hurts, but that's life. Consider it the blessing that pulled you away from a man who doesn't really care for you, before things went to far and it's too hard to leave. Good luck!
2007-03-06 23:10:22 · answer #8 · answered by honeygirlc 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
the moment you start to realise that you cant rely on anybody for happiness will be a good start for you. sometimes we love people who dont even realise what love is worth. learn to move on and concerntrate on your own happiness...true love will fid you when you not even searching for it. its hard to trust.
2007-03-07 03:01:07 · answer #9 · answered by angie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your feelings may have been sincere but it does not sound as though those feelings were reciprocated.its very difficult to give 150% when we are receiving nothing in return.its give and take not just take take take,please move forward so you can find someone who will give back.
2007-03-06 23:12:16 · answer #10 · answered by resigned 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋