theres this guy in one of my classes who really really likes me! but i dont like him in that way. hes not my type and i see him kinda like a brother. i like this other guy in the same class but i dont wanna flirt with him because i dont wanna hurt the guy wo really likes me...what should i do? i dont wanna tell the guy who likes me that i dont like him that way because i dont wanna hurt him because i think hes falling hard for me! and i love talking to him on the phone and stuff and i love being friends with him but ONLY FRIENDS!
2007-03-06 14:34:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just try to make him realize that you really don't like him and just try not to break his heart.....i know it sounds tricky and weird but keep doing the usual things you do and just tell the guy you like if you wanna hang out and stuff and really get into him....you know?
2007-03-06 14:38:57 · answer #1 · answered by jesluennee12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you don't want to go out with one guy, because you don't want to hurt the other one ??? I thing with that attitude you will remain single, or move to another city and stay there !
No no girl, date the guy YOU LIKE, don't worry about the other ones, they will go over it !
That's life, trust me, take it from a 56 yr old guy, your story happend to me also, but regardless I dated the one I fancied, and another girl was hurt in the process, then I dated anoter one, then another, etc... and have now the most wonderfull women on earth, I ended up dating THE ONE I was looking for ! (and I was not the only one after her) Do what your hart says, not your feelings !!!!
2007-03-06 22:54:04 · answer #2 · answered by bordasimus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha thats a hard situation to be in but theres always a way out.What you can do is hook him up with one of your friends and he will eventueally start liking her like he did with you. You can also do things the hard way by letting him know how you feel about him and if he like likes you he will understand and you wont hurt him and you both will go back to being friends
2007-03-06 22:51:06 · answer #3 · answered by CHICHO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dang i'd hate to be in ur situation, but theres only one way out, i mean telling him right?, if he gets hurt then oh well, lifes a *****, i fell in love really hard too, turned out life is a *****, so just do what u wanna do, don't let anyone else hold ur life in check, good luck lol :)
2007-03-06 22:38:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are the both of you. Trust me he will get over it. Go with what you want. No need in settling for less.
2007-03-06 22:37:49 · answer #5 · answered by mominkansas03 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him he is a great friend and hope he will always be a friend always!!! tell him even after you meet a guy you still want hid friendship..
2007-03-06 22:40:23 · answer #6 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you try to please everybody.you end up hurting yourself
2007-03-06 22:41:16 · answer #7 · answered by binda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋