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Girls getting pregnet at 13-14?
I mean,. it's not a good thing. I understand, and I agree but... that doesn't mean you shouldn't feel bad for them right?
I mean.. this one chick i know is supposedly "pregnet" and my friend said she saw her and that proved that she was prgnet.. i said
awwww.. poor girl. that stinks to ahve a kid that young of an age. and she was all...
Why poor?She's the one who got herself into this mess..

I mean.. yea it's true, but that doesn't mean you have to just be a ***** about it and blow her off becuz of it. Sometimes ppl need support for these kinds of things....

i'm just wonderin what u guys think bout this subject...
[sorry about miss-spelling, errors, etc...i dont wanna spell check lol]

Answer 1

13 is very young to become a parent of another human being. At 13, you still are trying to grow up and become an adult and are dealing with all of the issues associated with that. If you through in trying to be a parent at the same time, it makes it hard to grow and develop properly yourself.
If you do become pregnant and a parent at such a young age, why not consider giving the child up for adoption and having another family raise it. In that respect, the 13 year old can continue maturing themselves.

Answer 2

I have something against the idea of girls getting pregnant that early in age b/c they are not financially capable or emotionally capable of caring for a child. I don't feel sorry for them b/c they put theirself in that situation, but I feel sorry for the children of those young girls.
Girls that young really shouldnt even be having sex.
At 13 yrs old.. you can't even get working papers, so I am quite sure you are not going to be providing for your child yourself, and that isnt fair to your parents or society. Society has to deal with the pressure of providing for your kid, b/c some, not all of those young girls get on welfare and then since they sometimes dont do a good job at raising the child.. they can get into all sorts of trouble. It really all depends, but overall.. it's a pretty selfish thing to do.

Answer 3

Poor girl AND poor child! Not only has the girl tossed away her entire future, she's also brought a child into this world which she cannot support and, based on the fact that she's expecting so young, she's probably not mature enough to raise. Nobody wins.

And it was all for what? 15 seconds of the lie "I love you"? What a waste.

Answer 4

First off!!! Hey sunshine_ whatever... Can you learn to spell PREGNANT... RETARD...
Back to the question.

You should feel sorry for her. She now has to give up her own childhood to raise a child. I feel sorry for her. Yes she did get herself into this. But she is a child who most likely was pressured into this anyway.
My cousin got pregnant at 14 and all her friends got mad at her. It had nothing at all to do with her friends. But it did show her who her real friends were.
I think you should talk to the girl. Most likely she is having the same troubles that my cousin had. She probably needs someone to talk to. This is a very trying time for her.

Answer 5

Yeah I feel bad for them until I think of the fact, hey they are the ones who dicided on going to their boyfriend or husbands house (hopefully boyfriend) and have you know what. They are the people who chose to do that and now if they die or get arrested because of having the baby at such a young age, I don't care!

Answer 6

I think girls shouldn't be having sex till 18. Maybe 16. but never, ever before. But since she already did, and got herself in this mess, then you guys need to stand by her. She's still a young human being with emotions. She screwed up, yes, but haven't we all?

Answer 7

Its personal opinion.....

This young girl most likely doesn't have the right guidance in the home..... what can you really do about it??

Instead of listening to others, she will eventually find out for herself how hard it will be when she has to raise a baby .

People have the right to their opinions , you don't necessarily have to agree with them ...

Answer 8

No offense but your friend is mean. You can not be that be that soulless to a person who is going to have a baby who doesnt want one. Sorry but your friend is being inconsiderate and if so tell her to be abstinent. (stays away from sex till marriage) Just be nicer to her and when she needs help help her and then dont get into her same problem.

Answer 9

I dont think there is anything wrong w/ that age is just a # and if she dosent mind thats great good 4 her ppl should support her not b upset 4 her

Answer 10

it depends .... sometimes i feel sorry for them cause they are so young but you have to think about it, some don't know exactly about sex and pregnancy while some do it and don't think that they will get pregnant. either way they are still young and inexperienced. it's just a lesson to learn from. aren't you glad it's not you though.