I'm in a long distance relationship right now with my boyfriend of 2 years. I am going to college 100 miles away from him, but I visit him every weekend. His parents signed him up for ballroom dancing lessons and he dances with the single girls. I told him I was unhappy about it, but he said that he did it to hang out with his parents. (They go to the same dance class, but there are always some single women there for him to dance with.) His parents hate me (because I'm not white and Jewish) and they have tried to break us up before. He refuses to stop going to lessons, no matter how much I have begged and pleaded. I find it a little suspicious that they would sign him up for a class that had single women looking for male partners.
2007-03-06 14:26:12 · 11 answers · asked by Sonia S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He must like the classes if he will not stop taking them. If you have been with him for 2 years, why don't you trust him? It seems to me that you should. He has told you the truth about the classes or you would not be on here asking wha you should do. I think you need to settle down and put faith in him. Who cares what his parents think as long as he is being honest you have nothing to worry about. Stop being jeolous and Love your man. 2 years is a long time to get to know someone, do you trust him. Think about that. Good Luck
2007-03-06 14:33:39 · answer #1 · answered by stuffy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some of these answers are ridiculous. I have taught hundreds of "Hotties" and any credible studio has a NO FRAT POLICY. Which means the teacher will get fired if they have ANY relationship with a student. I could get fired for hanging out with a couple from the studio. As for his parents..I don't know. But check if this is a reputable studio. Also I teach MANY people who come in to the studio without their "other". It's NORMAL, and fun. Be glad he's dancing and not going to clubs/bars. Now there's a place that would not be good!
2007-03-09 07:27:17 · answer #2 · answered by Drake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. He's harmlessly dancing with his parents? What is he going to do at a dance class? Come on. Give the guy a break. Don't you trust him? What if you were him..would you want someone you cared about to tell you what to do? It is not like he is at a club grinding up on a girl. I think you are overreacting. Life is too short to stress about that. Either you both are honest and trust each other when you are so far away or you break up.
2007-03-06 15:01:51 · answer #3 · answered by asiansmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you trust him? what it sounds like to me is if the parents hate u as much as u say then they r probably trying to get him out mingling with other girls. Reality is u r 100 miles away, what it comes down to is whether or not u trust that at the end of the day it is you he wants. GL long distance is hard to work out
2007-03-06 14:30:43 · answer #4 · answered by aces_wild87 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will take time and hurt for a while but forget him and find someone that you will be happy with. Don't waste the only life you have on that. By the sounds of it he will always do what mummy and daddy say. He's a girl.Sorry
2007-03-06 14:32:33 · answer #5 · answered by golden tigress 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about it. Not only will it not do you any good, it will just create a problem with your boyfriend. He is doing something that his parents want and to be honest, it's pretty harmless too.
You are getting mad over nothing, he isn't going to do anything with those girls, and to think it will is insulting to him. Don't you trust him? With you getting mad over it, you are telling him you don't.
Think of it this way, he is learning how to dance with you.
2007-03-06 14:31:33 · answer #6 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there is nothing goin on, but has he cheated on u before? Well, why don't u show his parents that u r really a nice person. Try to take them out for dinner, or maybe go to a couple church services to show that you are willing.
2007-03-06 14:30:34 · answer #7 · answered by Emc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm just gonna throw this out there, your boyfriend shoudlnt be danceing with anyone but you, especially if it makes you uncomfortable. Ask him to stop or soemting (because danceing usually leads elsewhere.......), and if he decides not to stop, leave him before he had the chance to hurt you, ya know? Best of Luck
2007-03-06 14:30:09 · answer #8 · answered by theonewhoguides 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like another plan that his parents have to break you both up, if he really liked and respected you he'd stop
2007-03-06 14:30:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh, excuse me but are the two of you married?? If not, then you're both still single
2007-03-06 14:39:51 · answer #10 · answered by Master Ang Gi Guong 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋