For the past few years, I find myself attracted to guys as well as women. I don't really understand my feelings and I just want to know if this is normal. I'm a guy, by the way.
2007-03-06 14:18:53 · 17 answers · asked by tjmaxx17 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is nothing wrong about your own feelings. You might have to experiment a little to find out and you will find out. If you like both thats fine..then you are Bi-sexual. If you are gay thats fine too. Its normal at some point to want to figure it out, but if your preference is both...then so be it..only you can decide.
2007-03-06 14:25:58 · answer #1 · answered by mlock123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
'Normal' is completely relative and different for every person. Some would say no and at the very least of the argument (avoiding the religious issues because I think they are crap) they might say sex's purpose is reproduction and same-sex relationships do not facilitate such. On the other hand, it has been stated by a well-known psychologist, Jung I think, that we are all born bisexual but are socialized to be attracted to the opposite sex. You gonna let the world tell you what you want?
It does seem to me that girl on girl is more accepted than guy on guy. I wonder why. It might have to do with the increased risk of some nasty diseases.
Luckily I am of the female 'persuasion' and don't have to worry about that.
Personally, I don't care about a person's orientation. Well, unless I like the person.
2007-03-06 22:33:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally don't think it's "normal", but it certainly is common. It's called being bi-sexual, which it sounds like that is what you are. You just have to accept that you have attractions to both males and females, but you need to be open and honest with women b/c then it isnt fair.
2007-03-06 22:22:20 · answer #3 · answered by WORLD FAMOUS 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is just a phase you are going through. Do not dwell into guys (casually is fine, but you know what I mean) too much or you will 'actually' start to like them. Girls are waaay more rewarding in the end. That is how nature works anyways.
-Dark Aphotic
2007-03-06 22:24:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your age.
Sounds like you are trying to figure out who you are and your sexuality.
If you are in your teens or early 20s then it is normal. Give it some time. If you are still in school, you may want to talk to a teacher you trust or a counselor.
2007-03-06 22:22:28 · answer #5 · answered by Sweet Escape 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm a girl, and I'm attracted to girls as well as guys. There's nothing wrong with it, it's just your personal preference. There are a lot of people like you.
2007-03-06 22:22:10 · answer #6 · answered by Inkybob 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on where you live. If you live in a conservative part of the country, I suggest keeping it quit cause the conservatives view it as abnormal. If you live some place more tolerant, then it's viewed as "normal".
2007-03-06 22:23:10 · answer #7 · answered by gotagetaweigh 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if your attracted to both genders then its normal for you. other people might only like one & thats normal for them too. one benefit to likeing both? you get to look at more attractive people ;)
2007-03-06 22:26:22 · answer #8 · answered by Erika 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well to some people, it's not normal. It's called being Bisexual or Bi as people say it.
2007-03-06 22:21:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
u are just bi.
but there's nothing wrong with tat......
u shud learn to accept yourself for who you are ,that's only way u gonna be happy..!
2007-03-06 22:26:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋