What happens when i take out emotions out of decision makeing?

Question

Its been realized by both family and myself that i tend to make decisions based on my emotions. I too realize that sometimes that can result in wrong decisions. but if i do happen to take out my emotions out of my decision makeing, what happens to my emotions. Im very emotinal, confirmed by my palm i can be very good at hideing them. But they tend to reveal themselfs throught the decisions i make. If i begin to dismis my slef form my emotions what happens to them? As it is, i alredy have enuff emotion backed up insinde myself. But i know that when my do make a decision based on my emotions, they rarely end up with the right outcomes. Can any body help me. And also give me a reason why i should listen to you. ( No ooffence. I juss dont take advice from anybody)

Answer 1

well already you've proven that your capable of controlling your own emotions in situations based on the statement you made when you said you don't take advice from just anybody?

Sometimes people around you need directions and thats what reactions to situations are when you really think about it ?, its just our human way of trying to guide those we do know and those we don't know around the right direction of our hearts ,

We all want to show everyone around our hearts ,the beautiful rooms that lay waiting furnished with our dreams wev'e yet to reach , we want to walk them along the hallways adorned with pictures and portraits of our memories , we also want those we do and those we dont know not to go down into the dungeon filled with our dissapointments and pain ,

we try to keep them away from that place we lock it up up tight and hide away the entry from sight hoping that one day that dark place inside the depths of our hearts will be forgotten and if so ? will then cease to exsist. we continue onwards showing our brighter emotions as if they were lamps hoping to guide those we know and those we don't far, far away up into the higher towers where our love and expectations float therein ,but should someone happen to find a way down into the deep and forbidden place , thats when we scream and yell and lose all focus of directing them elsewhere because the dust and debry of those hidden places if opened?.will pour out causing confusion, covering the pathway to all the beautiful places which had been cleaned and prepared .

We spend so much in effort to guiding those we do and those we don't know towards our better selves with a great wealth of emotion and hope for the future of our personal kingdoms

Some times its a blessing to get negative feedback or results to a choice or decision or turn of direction we make in our life or those around us in turn make as well,because it helps us build strong walls around our hearts and thats important because our hearts are our castles filled with treasure that shouldnt be shown or offerd to just any old UNinvited traveller passing by incase they steal it and sell and trade it away peice by peice leaving only the relic of a dark fortress at the wake of every new dawn laying in rubble and consumed by the haunting echos of our lost dreams along the empty passage ways in place of where a beautiful castle (the heart ) once stood proudly in its place.

Our emotions are designed to be like our own personal architects which are here to help us build the kind of walls around our hearts ( our castles ) that we need to protect them from Uninvited intruders ..smile ,some people only need small walls and so they are given less creative architects
in other words ( less emotions )

I guess what I'm saying is perhaps your walls are grand and majestic in size and height and the gates are dramaticly designed and that's wonderful !,
the architect of you emotions has most likely built many wonders into your walls your experiences your tears your smiles your laughter and your pain has been spent etching and carving your story on its solid surface

and mabey there is a warning carved here and there as well and thats a good thing too!

truely your heart ( your castle ) must contain much treasure.
if you have so many emotions as you say you do.

be proud .

Answer 2

Your emotions are important at times, but not all times and not for all choices. Yes, you may be seen as cold or heartless, but rational and reasonable. If you just live off your emotions and ignore your reason, you can be seen as flaky, dramatic and just plain irrational! It's best to find a healthy balance. Don't entirely dismiss your emotions, but don't let them run away with you either that could lead to depression, anxiety, instability ect.

Answer 3

If you remove emotions from decisions you could be seen as cruel or heartless. I suggest letting your emotions help you narrow down your choices and then use reason to go from there.