i really like this girl and weve hung out like 4 times now and hooked up a few times as well. the 1st time we hung out thru a friend i clearly got the feeling that she liked me but we didnt do anything. the next 2 times we hung out we just chilled and we hooked up. i really like her and i guess she likes me. sometimes she comes on AIM but only for a few minutes at a time and were both on and we dont really talk and if we do its nothing more then the usual hey whats up and that and then its like over cuz we dont know eachother real well and have nothing to talk about. the only problem really is that she never initiates anything like the call or the instant msg. when i ask her to chill on the weekends i think its clear she wants it to be me and her and shes 0/3 on getting a friend for one of my friends and she came up with the ideas for us to go out to dinner together or see a movie.i think it looks pretty good and im prob just paranoid, but then again y doesn she ever IM me or call?
2007-03-06 14:10:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's not sure that you are interested. She's just not sure how to take what's happened with the two of you. I think if you let her know you are interested, you'll get the response you are looking for.
2007-03-06 14:17:24 · answer #1 · answered by debrenee211 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you say hooked up, do you mean sex??? Cause you are definitely making a difference here. As far as the IM and text, you need to TALK to her. Next time you are with her try not having so many friends around. Take her to dinner and a movie and have fun. Just the two of you and see how much you have in common. If you haven't really made it clear to her that you want to be more than friends, let her know.
2007-03-06 14:19:40 · answer #2 · answered by Kimmie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, this happened to me about a month ago. Though it didn't work out for me because we go to seperate schools, it can work! Girls don't usually call or IM first. They want the guys to. I'm sure she likes you unless she is VERY desperate, she wouldn't hook up with you more than once! Ask her to a movie. Hang out with her with other friends so she isn't pressured to do anything. Talk to her and tell her how you feel. Tell her you like her and ask her out! Good luck!
Remember: Girls like guys who are spontaneous and caring. Tell her how you feel, but in a special way, a way that guys normally don't do. I'm sure she will like it! :D
2007-03-06 14:17:23 · answer #3 · answered by Caiti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She does liek you, she just wants to make sure you feel the same way. Since she's the girl and ur the guy, you should be the one calling her at first, if after a while she still doesn't initiate anything or call, ask her why she doesn't.
2007-03-06 14:18:39 · answer #4 · answered by Pinklady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might not be the type to im or call first. you might need to make the first step. and it seems like she likes you but she might be shy or realy dont know what to do or is waiting on you to make the move so next time ask her about it and see if she thinks ya'll should go out or something
2007-03-06 14:20:25 · answer #5 · answered by babygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe her parents r like realli strict and she doesnt have a chance to go online much XD. some girls like talking face to face instead of talking on the phone or iming cause u cant realli tell wen someones being serious or not. the way u're telling it, it sounds like she likes u, so dont panic :D
2007-03-06 14:18:01 · answer #6 · answered by zmtz28 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you hooked up...it's not like you haven't done anything, so she must feel SOMETHING for you...she is probably just shy about communicating. Just be the man and keep talking/calling/IMing to her first. She probably likes it that way.
2007-03-06 14:19:08 · answer #7 · answered by purplegrl28 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably feels like IM and calling are not the best way to get to know you. She probably prefers face to face contact with you so that she can get the real feel for you.
2007-03-06 14:14:45 · answer #8 · answered by vidamar 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt worry about it. It sounds like she is just a girl who likes to go slower and take her time. Be patient. If you are hanging out again, then just be patient. She sounds like someone who doesnt like to be overcrowded.
2007-03-06 14:17:14 · answer #9 · answered by mlock123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well mayb shes nervous, and you should probably try calling her. Does she know exactly how much you like her? If she doesnt you should let her know.
2007-03-06 14:14:34 · answer #10 · answered by Amber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋