So I've known this girl (who happens to be in my circle of friends) for about 3-4 years, but we never really talked untill the beginning of this school year. We've hung out a bit but with a small group of friends, nothing remotely serious. However, since I started talking to her I get half-smirks in the hallway and she will talk with me every once in a while.
Maybe I'm overreacting (I have the same effect on other people), but do you think I should ask her out? Possibly wait another year or so?
I'm rather mature, and this isn't one of those "OMG, she's so hot!" kinda infatuations. Rather I enjoy her company and wish to be by her side when she needs me. I can be fun to be around sometimes, but often times I am too quiet and not much of a social person. This stops me from casually talking to most people.
Anyways, serious replies are appreciated. However if you come up with a witty way to dis me or something, I might give you a thumbs up.
-Dark Aphotic
2007-03-06 14:09:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well if you feel ready and comfortable talking her, just ask her out for a movie or somewhere that both of you might enjoy. Hope you have a great time!
2007-03-06 14:15:05 · answer #1 · answered by happy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out. Go for it. You have nothing to lose. If you keep waiting for the right moment or time, it might not ever come. Definitely don't wait a year.
2007-03-06 22:14:52 · answer #2 · answered by acvader 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest making the effort to talk to her more. Even if it means breaking out of your shyness, it's worth it. If you just have a few interesting conversations she will know more about you, and more likely to say yes (if she enjoyed the conversations).
I was like you; you've got to make the effort.
2007-03-06 22:16:53 · answer #3 · answered by parrotsandgrog 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whats your hold-up ASK HER OUT
2007-03-06 22:16:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋