Me and bf been going out for 2 months the problem is that he lives in the dominican republic and i live here in new york lately he wasnt really been picking up my calls and i just dont know what to do?? i would like to demonstrate people that even though we young we can still do it and work things out im leaving to Dr on march 31 so we going to be together but still is hard to trust him what should i do???
2007-03-06 14:08:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you don't have to prove that because you are young, your relationship will work out.
people of all ages find succes and failure in relationships.
if you don't trust someone, it's time to move on.
i hope you will... take care!
2007-03-06 14:12:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he have E-mail? If you don't get any answer, do not take off for the place before you definitely hear from him. Sometimes you can be too trusting....
It is unfortunate, but true that guys often come to another country....make a lot of promises that you want to hear...but have no intention of following thru. Why isn't he answering your calls? And how long have you been trying to get him?
There could be a good reason....but until you find out why...don't go!
2007-03-06 14:14:16 · answer #2 · answered by samantha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try calling him and leave a message. Does he know you are going to the DR? Tell him you know long distance relationships usually don't work out. Tell him you trust him and you know if he trusts you that you both can make it work. If you truly love eachother, it will work! Call him and tell him you need to talk and tell him you don't know if its because he is busy or because he is avoiding you, but he hasn't been picking up his phone whenever you call. Tell him you love him and that you love talking to him. And that the sound of his voice makes you happy. You miss him, tell him! Good luck!
2007-03-06 14:13:48 · answer #3 · answered by Caiti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ur leaving to be with him???Dont do that,u have been going out 2 mths u dont fully know this guy or what hes about.this might be harsh but he might not be answering cuz hes with some other girl.U need to investigate more on this b4 u bust a wrong move.then what....u dont want 2 be hurt the way i have been....trust
2007-03-06 14:14:50 · answer #4 · answered by borimami_luscious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to him before you even consider leaving for DR. When you do get him on the phone, ask whats going on first.
2007-03-06 14:12:19 · answer #5 · answered by mlock123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dun call him and eventually he'll call u, then give him back the same treatment....
before u go there, u gotta ask urself if tis man is worth it?
if u go there and fnd out that he's cheatin on u, give him a gd beatin then go back to nyc.
some people or not worth your time.
2007-03-06 14:16:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes not amswering and you cant talk to him are you sure you want to spend the money to go to the dominion republic?
2007-03-06 14:12:16 · answer #7 · answered by resigned 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, how old are you?
Secondly, is there anyone else you can call? Before you jump onto an airplane to go see him (alone? I hope not), PLEASE get in contact with him.
2007-03-06 14:11:16 · answer #8 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he don't want you................anyway why would you want to have a b/f that lives so far away? I mean think about it.........is it really a relationship or just wrods to say that you have a b/f from another place?
2007-03-06 14:13:27 · answer #9 · answered by josiesmom305 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop calling him anymore, he will return your call in 4 days after that...if he didnt then he is not worth it!
2007-03-06 14:11:35 · answer #10 · answered by aziz_aron 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋