Why do brides to be..........?

Question

Freak out when they find out their fiance is going to a stripclub for his bachelor party? Seriously I have to know this because it actually sounds childish to me....I think that the only people who freak out about it

A....Have never been to one....Most of the goodclubs have a very strict touching policy so there is actually very minimal touching...but that does vary by the different women or

B.....Don't trust their fiances..In that case why are you marrying them if you can't trust them??

I have been to and like going to the clubs...I think all women are beautiful and sexy some are just smart enough to get paid for it!!!

They may take your man on stage, cuff him to the pole, and beat his azz with a belt but its all in good fun!!!! Your perspective??

Answer 1

My husband opted not to have a bachelor party. He said that he would rather spend that time with me... that it was an excuse for guys to drink and be perverted. I didn't have a hen night either. I just didn't feel like it was that important to me. Neither one of us drink or party... so it was pointless to us. However, if that is what the couple is into... I don't see why the chick would be flipping out. I have been to hen parties where the bride to be didn't act like she was getting married...or even in a relationship for that matter. I agree that trust is a major issue and that marriage is going to be extremely difficult without it.

Answer 2

to each her own, just because someone doesn't agree with your perspective doesn't make them childish. I'm not gonna "freak out" if my fiance goes to one, but its nor my fave place for him to be, and i'd rather he just not go.....I don't think its appropriate.

I realize they can't touch the girls, but I just don't like the idea of a half naked woman dancing all around my future husband. It's also not that I don't trust my fiance, I do and even if I didn't like you said their is strict no-touching policies to keep him from doin anything. I just go back to if it were our daugther up their doing that stuff how would he feel about it? It's my opinion and I'm entitled to it

Answer 3

my husband and I decided that we will never go to a strip club. neither of us did before the wedding and neither of us ever will. unlike people like yourself, we are enough for eachother. we feel no need to look at other men/women as they do nothing for us. its liek my husband says...why would he go to a strip club when he can look, touch and have his way with what hes got at home. I feel the same way. I think its people like you that are childish and those women at strip clubs have no respect for themselves. I trust my husband will all my heart, he just has enough respect for me and himself to avoid places like that.