Ok me and my boyfriend have had sex a few times now but he's always on "top" and now he wants his turn and he wants me to be on top next time! But my question is..........what am i spose to do once im on top? It sounds stupid to ask a question like this but i dont wanna look nor feel stupid when im on top and just sittin there and yea!HELP PLEASE!!!!
2007-03-06 14:01:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
girl i hope ur question doesnt get removed lol..mine did!
i knw its hard 4 me..cuz it doesn't feel the same, and i cant move as fast as him...
wat ur suppose to do is sit on him, with his d!ck in u..and go up and down..like "bounce"...or just grind on him..that feels goOd, and i can actually orgasm when i do that.
..if u lift urself a lil..he can help out wit the moving 2
2007-03-06 14:06:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is really hard to tell you what you need to do. First of all don't think you are going to look stupid he's not worrying about how you look believe me. Either explain to him that you have never been on top before and ask him to show you how to do it or just go with the flow. It is too hard to tell you how to do it as all blokes have different likes and dislikes but it's kind of like riding a horse you can go back and forwards or up and down, just go with the flow and you will soon learn what to do.
2007-03-06 22:09:26 · answer #2 · answered by jimmy_chick78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you get on top sit on his dick. Then you start moving back and fourth. Once you done that jump up and down on the dick but make sure it doesn't come out of you. Do it in a slow pace and then do it fast. You want to make him *** alot.
2007-03-06 22:13:13 · answer #3 · answered by wetcat2009 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The great news is, in this case there's a really good way to have good communication DURING sex: Ask him to guide you GENTLY with his hands at first to give you ideas.
It will likely work out well for you really soon if you take that approach.
2007-03-07 02:39:37 · answer #4 · answered by Curt Monash 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fun of sex is figuring that stuff out with your partner...if you don't feel comfortable enough to learn and explore and be honest about your fears and questions with your partner you might want to rethink if you are ready for sex. that all i can tell you.
2007-03-06 22:08:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch a lot of porn and observe what the girls do. the reason he wants you on top is because he wants to see you and be able to touch you. if you notice most psotion don't allow that for a guy. so be visually stimulating and grab his hand and put them where you know he wants them. don't be afriad to let go and enjoy it, cow girl is awsome.
2007-03-06 22:31:09 · answer #6 · answered by optcynbassist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a nice position because you can control depth more and position yourself in the best way for orgasm. Just get on there and have fun and don't be self conscious.
2007-03-06 22:05:29 · answer #7 · answered by rebecca h 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You dont just sit there. Trust me when you get on top you will do what is natural. You will figure it out.
2007-03-06 22:05:57 · answer #8 · answered by mlock123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol you are to funny....well u either have two choices u can ride him or you can let him do the work.....u dont ask what u are supposed to do, it just comes naturally you will see
2007-03-06 22:06:35 · answer #9 · answered by Shawn C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't know how to ride a pony you will probably fall off.
2007-03-06 22:07:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋