Well about a year ago I dated this guy named William and we were both 13 yrs old. I have asked this question 3 times and alls I get is I don't know what true love is and Im too young to understand.... So please treat me like I'm like 18. Well anyways I have liked William for 2 years befor he asked me out. Well he broke up with me because he found out that I was moving to Oklahoma and He lives in Missouri. We are still friends and everything but sometimes he tells me that he still loves me and misses me. And I still love him and miss him. I need help sometimes I hear love songs and I just cry. I really miss him. Please give me advise. I really love him. Please don't tell me that im only 14 and I don't understand... but I think I do. Please Help me. Thanks for reading this.
2007-03-06 14:01:16 · 2 answers · asked by volleyballis4ever 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK I'm not going to say that you can't know what true love is because of your age. My oldest sister was 14 when she & her husband got married. They were just a few months short of their 50th wedding anniversary when my brother-in-law died of a heart attack. They had 4 daughters, the oldest one was born while my sister was16 years old. This also happened during the 40's when things were a lot different than now-a-days. My advice to you is to continue your friendship for as long as possible through emails, IM's, phone calls and postal letters but be open to new friendships also. If possible find an adult that you can talk openly to~a parent, aunt, uncle, friends parent, preacher/priest, counselor or possibly a grandparent. Some one that you trust to treat you as a young woman and not Just a kid. Talk to them about your feelings and give yourself & this young man time to mature more. If y'all still love each other when you are both older~16 or 17~maybe one or both of you could visit each other for short holidays or vacations. But my number one advice for both of you is to keep yourselves open for other Possible friend/relationships. If you truly are in love, you still will be in 2 or 3 years.
My best wishes for both of you through this difficult(hard) time.
2007-03-06 15:17:14 · answer #1 · answered by Donna J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you only think that you understand. At 14 your body is changing and you are having feelings that with your age you just can't understand. Finish growing up before you have kids or end up like Alexander, by the time she was 16 she already had one kid and 6 months along with another. She has no ideal who the father is of any of her kids. Think about that then say you are grown up enough to understand.
2007-03-06 22:08:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋