there is this guy i really think that i am starting to like.. i have strong feelings for him.. and i think that i really like him a lot.. but some people keep saying What if he's just a rebound guy?! ..because i just got my heart broken a little over a month ago. is this too soon to be seeing someone new? the last guy and i never got to become "official" boyfriend and girlfriend though because he started liking some other girl.. which is Now his girlfriend, so i figure i need to move on.. but also to complicate matters worse, this new guy is one of my old guy's best friends... so is this wrong? because a lot of people say that the ex's best friends are completely Off Limits... but he was never officially my "ex" and he has a gf so why should he care.. so does it really matter if i like his friend..? (btw the last guy was a player too and continued to lead me on for three weeks while he liked that other girl.. and this best friend guy was the only one really there for me.)
2007-03-06 13:53:16 · 3 answers · asked by coolio 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You never really mattered to the ex anyway. If you want to kick it with the friend , do it. You all's relationship (if u wanna call it that) wasn't long enough to warrant any feelings of betrayal on his part. X to the next, baby! In other words, " ain't no love lost"!
You can not get into the habit of thinking that someone who comes into your life for 3 weeks is worth being "hurt" over. You were dating him, That's It! That's why he didnt hesitate to blow you off for the other girl.
I wouldn't feel like I owe you anything at that stage of the game either. Sorry, but its the truth and i totally sympathize with you.
Good Luck to you from someone who has learned alot of lessons at 31 yo.
2007-03-06 14:09:12 · answer #1 · answered by FemFatale 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you like the guy, and it's not going to cause a lot of drama in your life, then go out with him!
the old guy wasn't your "official boyfriend" anyway!
good luck!
2007-03-06 21:57:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
go for it, but with both eyes wide open.
2007-03-06 21:59:55 · answer #3 · answered by brian p 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋