i really like this girl and weve hung out like 4 times now and hooked up a few times as well. the 1st time we hung out thru a friend i clearly got the feeling that she liked me but we didnt do anything. the next 2 times we hung out we just chilled and we hooked up. i really like her and i guess she likes me. sometimes she comes on AIM but only for a few minutes at a time and were both on and we dont really talk and if we do its nothing more then the usual hey whats up and that and then its like over cuz we dont know eachother real well and have nothing to talk about. the only problem really is that she never initiates anything like the call or the instant msg. when i ask her to chill on the weekends i think its clear she wants it to be me and her and shes 0/3 on getting a friend for one of my friends and she came up with the ideas for us to go out to dinner together or see a movie.i think it looks pretty good and im prob just paranoid, but then again y doesn she ever IM me or call?
2007-03-06 13:46:35 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude, you do NOT have a problem here.
She wants you to take the lead, but she's willing to communicate about what she likes or wants. That's an ideal situation.
The only bad case is if she has a narrow idea of what a relationship is like, and you don't feel like fitting into that. But if that's the problem, you'll figure out soon enough. Just take her out on dates and spend time together at home. Kiss her early and often, but don't be in a super-rush physically otherwise. Tell her what kind of clothing and so on you like best on her.
A lot of girls like this are the same ones who try hard to please their guys. Enjoy.
2007-03-06 18:44:00 · answer #1 · answered by Curt Monash 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋