Ladies Help!?

Question

I am with a girl i guess that makes me happy, but there is another girl that i think a lot of, and me and her have a lot in common, she is also very beautiful. And all i want to do is keep my girlfriend happy, plus i want her to be able to trust me! plz help!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

well u have to think about this question first, which one do i want to go out with? what i would do if i liked two guys who both liked me back is that i would list the pros and cons for each person. if u and the other girl ur not going out with have more in common and love hanging out with her, more than ur gf then i think u know who to choose. just u really have to think about which girl u really like hanging out with more. just think about it. Good Luck. hopefully u wil choose the right one.
P.S. u have to make sure that if u choose the other girl that she likes u back or else u lost 2 great girls.

Answer 2

The important thing to remember here is that you cannot make everyone happy. Your girlfriends happiness is key of course, but the way you stated "i guess" when it came to your own happiness just didn't sound too promising. First you need to think about what it is you want to happen with this other beautiful girl? Which girl would make you happier? And how would you like for your girlfriend to handle the situation if she were to be in your shoes?

The more responsible and mature thing to do would be to have a talk with your gf and let her know that you don't want to lose what you have with her but you need some time to yourself right now. Let her know you still like/love her to the point where you don't want to hurt her so you need some time to be alone and clear your mind but that you'd still like to remain close while you're working through your "stuff".

This option is way better than leading a double life with two women. She will most likely understand and have respect for you since you didn't wait until you did something dumb like cheat and end up losing ALL of her trust. Women can sense when guys try to hide something from us, therefore your gf would eventually become suspicious if you decide to have your cake and eat it too.
Just remember, if you are going to be with her, do it because you WANT to actually BE with HER.

Answer 3

How to Treat a Girl Well
So, you want to know how to treat a girl? Every girl is different, so not everything you do for one girl will necessarily flatter another. But, there are some general things you can do to show a girl that you care.

Steps

be nice to herRemember that most of all, a girl wants to be appreciated. The more genuine and specific you are, the better.
Find out her hobbies by asking her questions about the kind of music she likes, observing her environment, and asking about clothes or pictures she might have.
Compliment her. Say that her hair looks nice or she has a cool shirt on. Mean it. Keep it real.

give a gift for herTell her she is pretty. No matter how ugly a guy is, a girl will usually be flattered when she is told this. Say "You've got the most beautiful eyes/hair/skin/hands/etc. I've ever seen" and again - mean it!
Take a shower, put on deodorant, and brush your teeth right before you see her - every time. Nothing makes a girl more uncomfortable than body odor and/or bad breath.
Listen! You need to be a good listener. That works with most of the girls, they need someone who will patiently listen and understand them! There is a HUGE difference between "Hearing" and "Listening" so make sure you don't just "hear" her. Pay close attention to what she is saying and really "listen" to her from your heart!
Let her know about things she might be interested in. This will show her you know about things she likes.
Don't forget her special occasions, especially her birthday.
Be truthful, there is no need to lie.
Make her feel comfortable.
If a girl is upset with you, listen and try to fix things. Just try and compromise. Tell her that you love her all the time and mean it don't play games with her let her know that she is special.



Tips
When you are at a restaurant, sit across from her at the table (unless the table is really long, in which case you should sit next to her). Allow her to sit facing the room, while you face the wall. This way you give the impression that you require no view other than her beauty.
Some girls won't want you to pay for them; if that's the case, don't press the issue. It's the thought that counts, and she's sure to recognize your courtesy.
Taking her to places that cost lots of money isn't the best idea, because in restaurants you don't really talk, you eat, and in movies you just watch the movie. Take her to the park, maybe buy ice cream on the way; that way you interact more with her. It's also cheaper.
Take things slower.
Look her directly in the eyes when you speak to her or when she is speaking to you.
Pay careful attention to your manners at all times.
Show that you are impressed by her, but don't forget to impress her with something different. Show you are different and sometimes crazy about life. Show her something that only you have got.
Girls are constantly analyzing you, what you do, how you dress, dates you take them on and lots of other things.
Do not put her on a pedestal. You are there to be an equal human, not a doormat. If you act like you worship the ground she walks on, you will come across as needy and clingy.
Arrogant men don't get all the girls, confident guys do. Women are less visually-oriented than men are, so even if you're not the most attractive guy in the world, your confidence will suggest that you're someone worth being with and your personality will back up that suggestion.



Warnings
Make sure you don't act nervous; just be calm, relaxed, and straight to the point. Don't stutter, mumble, or say "Um" or "Uh"; that will make her think you're bored.
If she tells you about a problem, don't try to fix it. Just listen to her. (There are a few exceptions.)If she starts to cry, hold on to her like she might fall apart - girls like a sense of security when everything else seems to be going wrong.
And if you might have, say, a speech disorder, and you can't help the first one if it should happen, let her know that, and you'll be okay.
If you exaggerate your compliments or are insincere, a girl can usually see through that. And no one likes a kiss-up.
Make sure you're being yourself. If you act like a gentleman when you are alone with her, and then like a jerk when you're with you're friends, she will catch on and you will run into trouble.
Most importantly. Make sure she doesn't find out you tried to learn how to make her laugh reading articles on the Internet.

Answer 4

Sounds like your not ready to be in a commited relationship if your thinking about another girl. Be honest with the both of you. How can you keep her happy, if your looking around?

Answer 5

Well if you want another chick, you're probably trying to convince yourself that the one you're with is making you happy. But if she truly isn't and you like the other girl more, go for her. Because eventually things will get worse between you and your g/f, and you'll end up hurting her.

Answer 6

make up your mind with who you realy want...it looks liek you are only with this girl because you want to keep her happy and you genualy like her...
but if you think that this other girl would make you happier and you find yourself thinking about her all the time, i think you should either end it with your current gf, or end it with the other girl because you cant play them both, thats just rong.
it would be better to tell the girl who you are ending it with how you feel and why it would be best if you stay apart.
i hope that helps
kat xxx

Answer 7

try doing things that make your girlfriend happy and also tell her that nothing is going on between you and this other girl and maybe have the other girl tell her that too..and just be nice to her pay alot of attetion to her and dont be a two timer.

Answer 8

dont cheat!!! ur @ss will regret it, promise me
if u like the other girl better, be sure u have broken up with ur girlfriend and have waited at least two weeks before u go out with the other girl, or else ur (future(?)) ex might beat on ur car with a shovel if u hook up with her the day after

Answer 9

well the fact that you started your question with "i guess that makes me happy" doesn't convince me that you're all together happy.

just be honest with whatever you do. don't go behind anyone's back, or lie to either of them.
go with what makes you feel the happiest.

Answer 10

if you like another girl, to tell you the truth, you're lying to your girlfriend. if you like this other girl, just tell your girlfriend that she is a great friend, but you're not sure that you want to get serious with her.
hope this helps!