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how much encouragement is appopriate?

2007-03-06 13:42:06 · 5 answers · asked by Mighty Opinions 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting Toddler & Preschooler

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Praise is a good thing, as long as it is genuine. It is appropriate to praise behaviors you want to see repeated. However, you want to steer clear of praising for every little thing. "Wow. That is a great picture!" "Look how high you can jump!" "I like your cute dress." Over praising can lead to a child feeling as though they are entitled to praise all the time, or that they can't do anything without your approval. This leads to them being co-dependent on your praise in order to feel good about themselves, instead of fostering the idea that they can feel good inside without outside praise. Instead say something like, "Wow, you should feel good about how you put that puzzle together yourself! That was hard work!" This puts the emphasis on feeling good about their own accomplishments instead of trying to please you all the time and wait for your complement to qualify them.

2007-03-06 14:13:28 · answer #1 · answered by dolphin mama 5 · 2 0

encouragement is not limited it is OK to give them alot of encouragement.And to offer encouragement when they do something good tell the Great job.Like when they color or something say it's pretty that helps build self-esteem

2007-03-06 22:09:45 · answer #2 · answered by Precious 1 · 0 0

stickers! It's simple and kids love them, also just giving them a moment of your undivided attention to tell them they did a great job will light their little hearts up.

2007-03-06 21:46:11 · answer #3 · answered by Shawna 4 · 0 0

Give them attention when they do something good, use the rules of psychologist Skinner

2007-03-06 21:48:31 · answer #4 · answered by misspeca2727 1 · 0 0

As much as they want to give.

2007-03-06 21:46:02 · answer #5 · answered by chelebeee 5 · 0 0

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