I'm 14 and i weigh 114 and I'm only 5'1! how can i loose weight? any tips or websites would be greatly apprieciated. I get called fat a lot and i believe im the fattest of all of my friends.
Thank You
2007-03-06 13:41:48 · 17 answers · asked by baby gurl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my friends and i always eats together there is nothin goin on there
2007-03-06 13:49:09 · update #1
it not my friends most of the time that call me fat
2007-03-06 13:50:34 · update #2
You are not fat and your friends are too skinny. Skinny is not attractive. As a guy I have never thought of skinny girls as attractive.
2007-03-06 13:46:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
THERE IS NO SUCH THING as too fat for boys. If a boy thinks you're too fat, then he doesn't deserve you. I probably weighed more than 114 at your age. If a boy is only interested in your looks he's probably not going to make anyone very happy in a relationship. I am one of the heavier people I know and my husband thinks I am the prettiest girl in the world. Beauty is not measured in pounds!!!!!!!!!!! I believe that all humans were beautifully created in the image of God, and that makes me KNOW I and everyone else is lovely. DON'T LISTEN TO THE LIES OF THE MEDIA when it comes to beauty; the truest beauty is manifested through loving others. That said, you and all humans have a very high degree of exterior beauty too, no matter what anyone tells you. NEVER BELIEVE SOMEONE WHO DOESN'T THINK YOU ARE EXQUISITELY LOVELY JUST THE WAY YOU ARE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-06 21:51:24 · answer #2 · answered by seaturtle26j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety please I was about that when I was 14. Your not fat. Your friends are azz holes. Real friends stick by you and encourage you if your feeling a certain way. If your uncomfortable about your body talk to an adult you can trust about it. If it's that serious that you need to loose weight check out the BMI. It will be able to tell you the weight you need to be around for your height. At 5'1 your in good standing sweety.
2007-03-06 21:49:24 · answer #3 · answered by giya_98 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First are you loosing for yourself or for others? If your stats are correct, your friends need to stop looking at pictures of paris hilton and see real people. If you want to loose weight of yourself there's some great books that out line long term diet and exercise plans. You want to avoid anything that has you crash diet. Adkins and others, can really **** you up, especially if your not done the whole growth thing. They only work because any diet change will make you drop weight at first.
2007-03-06 21:51:12 · answer #4 · answered by land-pliskin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i used to feel that way i was 14 weighed 150 and 5ft 6in. people made fun of me but i always had boyfriends no matter what they loved the person i was in the inside. and then one day i was tired of being called fat so i became balemic. and know im 5ft 8in at 110 pounds i love the way my body looks but what they dont tell you is i lost my selfesteem with that weight. so i would say love the way you are and dont loose weight for nothing you sound like kind person and live life like tommorow is your last day i wish you the best sweety
2007-03-06 21:48:46 · answer #5 · answered by Grace W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not fat at all hun. Dont let people tell you that. I am the same height as you and the normal weight for people our height is 130 when fully grown. You are doing just fine. Just keep on eating healthy and excersie to stay in shape.
2007-03-06 21:50:32 · answer #6 · answered by moo shell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Puh-lease. Unless you typed your weight backwards, you know you are not fat. Sheesh, your friends must be as stringy and pale as yellow noodles. =3
If you have more weight than your friends, so what? That just mean you have more curves than them and with boys, that is a plus.
2007-03-06 21:47:43 · answer #7 · answered by ¥§Anaşia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen,ASK YOURSELF,"AM I BEAUTIFUL"? YOU SAY "YES I AM" LOVE YOURSELF! YOU ARE PERFECT FOR YOUR AGE AND THERES NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU! THE ONES WHO JUDGE AND MAKE FUN OF ARE THE ONES THAT ARE INSECURE ABOUT THEMSELVES! THOSE ARE THE ONES TO STAY AWAY FROM THE ARE BAD ENERGY...IF YOU FEEL LIKE YOU FEEL ALITTLE HEAVY THEN JUST BE ALITTLE MORE ACTIVE AND CUT SUGAR DOWN..AT YOUR AGE DIETING IS NOT GOOD!! PLUS YOU ARE ONLY 14 THAT'S THE AGE A GIRL STARTS EXPERIENCING CHANGES,THE BEST THING TO DO IS LOTS OF ACTIVITIES KEEP YOURSELF ON YOUR TOES AND DOING SOMETHING,AND STAY WAY FROM THOSE THAT ARE NEGATIVE...SMILE HUN YOUR BEAUTIFUL!!
2007-03-06 21:52:19 · answer #8 · answered by ~FliZo~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really aren't fat at all..... Don't worry about it. Trust me.... In about two years all the boys will be on you. Guys prefer girls with some meat than a twig. Well black guys and hispanic guys do anyway... :)
2007-03-06 21:45:41 · answer #9 · answered by . 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you need to have a high self a stem befor you can dont anything so start with that
2007-03-06 21:56:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋