this does not sound like a good situation. she asked you for a date? or like you said "hey, that movie looks good" and she said "oh, maybe i'll take you." even that situation is questionable. its illegal and yeah, i saw you're turning 14 in 2 months but in order for this to be ok, you'd need to be turning 18 at least. and with the big age difference, you are not going to be too happy. shes 23 which means shes able to drink, drive, pay for things all because shes in a different stage of life. don't be in such a rush to grow up, before you know it, you're old and paying bills. theres plenty of time for being old, enjoy your time as it is now. use this to make you more confident, if a 23 year old thinks you're cute, you can def score a girlfriend your own age.
2007-03-06 13:50:11
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answered by Phoebe24 3
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She is to old for you. It's not the amount of years between you that is wrong because it's really not. The point is, you are still only a child. She is SUPPOSE to an adult. Asking you out was very inappropriate, kidding or not. That was wrong of her and if I were your sister i would rethink my friendship with this girl. That would be considered child molestation. I know you are becoming a teenager but i don't care if you are sixteen. A twenty something woman has NO business asking a 13-14 yo out. If you were 23 and she was 33 I would say go for it, but right now, at your age, stay away from her.
2007-03-06 21:50:22
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answered by Anonymous
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that is Wrong. sorry but it is.. she either is a child molester or she is doing it as a sick joke. you are only THIRTEEN! i know i know i hate people on here who say you are still SOO young.. but in this case i am sorry but it is true. you are too young to have a truly meaningful relationship.. you will realize this later. since you obviously feel uncomfortable with this situation, since you asked it on here.. then that means you are uncomfortable=don't go. you will regret it if you do. one day you will look back on this.. and just think about it.. if you even Think it's wrong in any way (which you do since you asked) then it IS wrong to you and will feel wrong the Whole date. you need to be Comfortable on dates!! wait awhile until you are ready, and ask people only a Few years apart. best wishes to ya!
also it feels wrong because it is ILLEGAL!!! if she told you it was legal.. then she's definitely a child molester.. because i can assure you that that IS ILLegal! not legal for one second.. only when YOU turn EIGHTEEN and are an ADULT. wise up. don't be stupid please. she is lying..
2007-03-06 21:47:42
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answered by coolio 4
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A 23 year old model asking a 14 year old out? Honey sorry but either you're lying or she is twisted.
2007-03-06 21:48:31
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answered by ollie849 2
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I think she is playing a bit with you. Because she knows that you are a bit young for her. You don't have a lot in common I think. I mean, you don't have the same interests, kind of life ( disco, going out...).
And as you are still under 18 she could have problem for going out with you with justice if in your country the rules are just like in mine.
2007-03-06 21:48:04
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answered by kl55000 6
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She is way to old she seems to be like one of those teachers who had relations with their students your not even really old enough to date what does she expect from you I would tell your parents about this.
2007-03-06 21:45:03
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answered by Anonymous
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Too old for now...maybe when YOU are 23 and she is 32! :)
2007-03-06 21:46:55
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answered by oracle1 3
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Hun, I'm sorry to say, but she is WAY TOO OLD FOR YOU! Stay away from her hun. She might be trying to child molest you.
2007-03-06 21:46:21
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answered by SEXi_BRiANA 1
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yea....tell her to wait till you're 18, so it is legal! my parents are ten years apart but they didn't meet till they were 28 and 38 so wait till 18 so she doesn't get arrested and you dont get molested.
2007-03-06 21:45:58
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answered by lexxx♥ 3
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That's probably illegal dude. You're the man but you gotta decline.
2007-03-06 21:47:02
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answered by Anonymous
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