Today I stayed after school with some other 3 people and one of those people was a guy that I am going to call Justin. Well we were all there and the teacher was telling us that we were doing realy good in her class and all that and how she would let work on an individual project while the rest of the class was going to do a review. So then the bell rings and we all leave and while I was walking to my locker 'Justin' catched up to me and asked me if I wanted to got to the movies with him on friday and I told him I would think about it. But there is a problem: my best friend Nancy has a huge crush on him, ever since the first day of school and I dont know if i should go to the movies with him because I would feel like a traitor going out with my best friend's cruch.....What do I do? Should I go with him to the movies on Friday?
2007-03-06 13:27:17 · 11 answers · asked by Blueberry. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
noooooooo. dont go 2 the movies with him. ur friend will be very upset. Just tell him that hes a really nice person but a friend of urs like him. but dont give him clues on who it is.
2007-03-06 13:32:07 · answer #1 · answered by Marlin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell ur gf what happened.
See what she says, and if u really would like to go, then tell her u would like to go out with him. The facts are that she hasnt dated him, he hasnt asked her out, he hasnt acted like he likes her. So, technically, she just likes him right? Well, if u guys didnt go out with anyone that the other one likes, then u guys could go back and forth for years calling dibs on guys....lol It doesnt work that way. But, If she is a true friend, then talk to her about it. she will understand.
She will probably tell u to go ahead and go.
But, remember, there is no guy worth a true friendship. Guys will come and go, but true friends are rare. Be honest with her. Discuss the issue and come up with a resolution.
Good luck hun.
2007-03-06 21:36:44 · answer #2 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IMHO ...if she is your best friend don't go....my best friend went out with my crush when I was away on vacation. I caught them kissing one night after I returned from vacation and it was probably the worst hurt I ever endured. I was only 15 at the time but I was crushed. If you really want to go though be up front with her and tell her. Good luck
2007-03-06 21:38:26 · answer #3 · answered by ollie849 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are a good friend because a lot of girls wouldn't have given it a second thought and said yes. You could explain the dilemma to him so that he will not be that upset with you for turning him down or hook your friend up with him. Also talk to her and see how she would feel if you went to the movies with him. It never hurts to try
2007-03-06 21:31:52 · answer #4 · answered by badazz_51 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could talk it over with your friend but I don't think she would be ok with you going with him although she may say she is. There are plenty of other fish in the sea I would stay clear of "Justin" because you don't want to ruin a friendship over it.
2007-03-06 21:32:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have 2 choice...
if you have a crush on him or you like him...tell nancy that he asked you out!
option 2: - if u dont like justin then just bring nancy along and ask justin to bring his friend along...let nancy get what she want!
2007-03-06 21:32:14 · answer #6 · answered by aziz_aron 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your friend. If you really like him tell her. If she's not ok with it then I suggest not going. But, obviously he likes you more than her. But, if you feel too bad about it then ignore him. Tell him that you just don't like him like that.
2007-03-06 21:32:43 · answer #7 · answered by alaskan_gurl1995 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk 2 ur friend 1st, then answer. shell be happy u talked 2 her and probably wont get hurt as much as if u said yes. and who nos, she might let u go! pick me as ur best answer!
2007-03-06 21:32:07 · answer #8 · answered by melissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,respect your friends feelings
2007-03-06 21:33:44 · answer #9 · answered by BaDonkaDonk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should go out if your friend didnt ask him out then she lost her chance
tough love 4 her
2007-03-06 21:32:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋