Sexually frustrated woman, how to deal?

Question

I'm sexually frustrated; I am a woman. I am in a relationship, and I don't need any suggestions like, "Leave him," or "Cheat on him," because I will be with this man for the rest of my life (love at first sight).

But I mean, we're only 20!!! Why has the wild jungle sex stopped? It's always me trying to start things up with him but he just doesn't seem interested. We used to go every other night, now it's maybe once a week. Sometimes I feel so shot down after trying that I feel like never trying to make love with him again. Last night, I was kissing him and he said, "I am so tired!" like this was a perfectly acceptable thing to say. So he rolled over and went to sleep but I had to go out in the living room for a while. I slept really terrible last night.

How can I deal? Should I get a vibrator? Go out for a midnight jog? (I live in a dangerous area of town, that's not really an option) I need an outlet. Or a way to get that wild jungle sex back!!!!!!

Answer 1

Vibrators are good things.

Sex cools off in all relationships after a while.

Communication about sex is very important.

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All that said, however:

Unfortunately, however, you're in a very bad position. When you're feeling this way this young, it's a sign that you're going to have a very unhappy relationship if you do marry, almost certainly leading to divorce. And since you've ruled out leaving him, that means you're pretty much doomed to unhappiness, broken home, etc.

Maybe you'll get lucky, and he'll leave you soon. Otherwise, the prognosis is not good for you. :(

Answer 2

well im kind of in the same situation, my bf and i just kind fo stopped doing it all the time, its been like a month or 2 and i dont know how to get the mood going. but i guess we could just rape them? lol just get naked and hell do it. lol im goin to try.