im only 13 but i feel so unsocial. i feel like i wanna do something outrageous. i dont have any guy friends either. so how do i make more guy friends and be more outgoing?
2007-03-06 12:53:48 · 13 answers · asked by Melissa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm a 20 year old guy. I remember what 13 was like.
First, make sure you don't become obsessed with trying to impress everyone else. You'll get more friends being hardworking and confident in yourself than you will trying really hard to get friends (It's backwards, but believe me!)
Here's what you should do:
-Focus on getting things done.
-Care about everyone, even people who are unattractive or are unlikeable. If you take care of those people when you can, you'll be payed back for it.
-Join things that might be fun even if you've never done it. Like choir, or track and field. Also, join a church with a big youth group. Most people's friends come from some type of activity like that in high school. Plus, if you join a group like that, you know they're at least not total slackers because they're out doing things.
As far as guys go, they're so easy to be friends with. Just be really nice, enjoy being yourself, relax, and find ways to touch people when you talk to them. That's all it takes. People your age get in trouble though when that becomes they're main priority. Be careful...
2007-03-06 13:09:22 · answer #1 · answered by frogflight24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you gotta dig deep and find that courage and that confidence in yourself.
You don't have to do something outrageous to be outgoing. Just be yourself and you have to realize that being just you, outgoing or not is good enough.
You wanna have more guy friends, talk to em'. Ask them about themselves, and open the lines of the communication. And remember have confidence!
Good luck!
--Vae
2007-03-06 21:02:48 · answer #2 · answered by Nevaeh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, you should just think of getting more guy friends. Instead, you should be open and get to know anybody and everybody if possible. You don't really have to go far to meet new friends. You can can find them at the cafeteria, library, book shops, etc where they are plenty of people. Just give a smile and people will smile at you. Cheers.
2007-03-06 21:01:21 · answer #3 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok you are only 13....there is not much stuff that you can do. If you are wanting to be more outgoing I would say that you should play sports or something like that.
2007-03-06 20:56:52 · answer #4 · answered by linsey_runnels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was sorta like that but opposite cuz im a guy, but it rly just ended up that i just met one girl friend who was rly out going and stuff, and it just made it so much easier to just talk to guys and stuff...But sometimes u just gotta take a chance wit one person that u know is out going and nice, and then it all gets better from there...=)
2007-03-06 20:57:19 · answer #5 · answered by takestime01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well all that you got to do is do stuff that u don't do all the time like work harder than you do. u can have more boy friends by going up and start talking to a boy that u might want to be friends with. so just do stuff that you don't always do.and take a chance about making boy friends.
2007-03-06 20:59:38 · answer #6 · answered by katie l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 13 too and i used to b relly shy. my friends and i are relly outgoing tho. just do fun crazy things. go out with you friends more. talk to the boys. flirt with them. laugh with them. to be more outgoing just do whatever you want to do. dont b so shy but dont act obnoxious. thats all it takes. being fun.
2007-03-06 20:59:26 · answer #7 · answered by Ava 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to guys in classes
have groups of people over for plans on a halfday or something
wait until high school and have guy friends there
2007-03-06 20:58:23 · answer #8 · answered by | 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just have to be yourself and if guys don't like you for you then they can get over it...
and if you want to be outgoin...join a sports team if you like any...
you can go out for the cheer team or join leadership...or somthing that will you get you out in the open with all eyes on you...jsut do somthiing that you love...if you liek to sing join chior if you like to dance do the dance team...just have funn...
good luck and god bless... :)
2007-03-06 21:03:29 · answer #9 · answered by bballgurlie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do what ever you feel like doing. talk to everyone, be loud but not annoying, its easy to become freinds with guys, just be a little flirty, smart ( dont be ditsy ) and funny
2007-03-06 20:57:15 · answer #10 · answered by N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋