okay so he is on the phone rite now and he is cryin and i am 2 what do i do you guys i love this boy with all ive i got but he plays too much he dont knoe when too stop and i want him to see that he keeps on hurtin me and all i really want to do is be with him
2007-03-06 12:49:13 · 20 answers · asked by lilmissperfect254 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hang up and find a guy who will respect you and love you !
2007-03-06 12:52:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you love HIM more than yourself? If you love yourself you will not settle for bad treatment. Dont you know that you deserve better? No offense, but the fact that you even have to question this says a lot about your own self-esteem. KNOW that you are worth the best and you are NOT going to settle for just anything or anyone. Trust me that is the attitude that I have always maintained and because of it I have a WONDERFUL husband. Don't settle...love yourself and always strive for the best.
2007-03-06 20:54:46 · answer #2 · answered by eternallegs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you two need a break, bc you cant stand all this pain that hes causing you.......tell him, you love him so much, and you can def. see you both together again, IF AND ONLY IF he straightens up for good and shapes up....if he really loves you, he will learn....the thing about love is, sometimes you have to stop, look at the situation, test him, and go from there...its hard, but it will be all worth it in the end...you need a fair, loving, true relationship, and this is how you find out whether you have one or not.
GOOD LUCK!
2007-03-06 20:53:46 · answer #3 · answered by SassyGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to face reality. Go get a job, get a life, do something. Why is a man crying? No matter what the problem is, you guys have to communicate. Try to find out what is bothering him. If he refuses to tell you, then just him be. Let him think about it. Maybe he might want to talk to you about it later.
2007-03-06 20:53:39 · answer #4 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and tell him how he is hurting you and how he makes you feel. Try to work it out. If he still doesn't stop or understand then the best thing for you to do would be to leave him. There is always someone out there who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated.
2007-03-06 20:53:13 · answer #5 · answered by bradhurt2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, now you know how he is. The chances of him totally changing forever are slim to none. If he's cheated on you before, then he'll do it again. Suppose you and him were to get married........do you actually think he'll be true to you in 5 to 10 years? I highly doubt it. Best thing to do, in my opinion, is to let him go.....get over him, and move on. Otherwise, you're just going to keep on getting hurt over and over again. Think about this very carefully. Best of luck to you.
2007-03-06 20:59:48 · answer #6 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he just keeps hurting you then maybe you shouldnt be with him. does he love and feel the same about you too? stay with him if you want to keep on gettin hurt but dont expect him to change though cause he probably wont.
2007-03-06 20:54:07 · answer #7 · answered by Peter's_Wifey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too much drama.Thats not real love.Real love shouldnt be that hard.Although its in a woman's nature to be nurturing,,she should not stay in a relationship that is not happy.To be unhappy is to be unhealthy.
2007-03-06 20:53:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to stop playing then if he says I can't then leave him you could get over him or if he says he can stop playing give him a few days to prove he really loves you.
2007-03-06 20:58:43 · answer #9 · answered by danny alexander 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you guys first of all? If you are hurting that bad....then you shouldn't be together. If you are not happy then don't be in the relationship.
2007-03-06 20:53:44 · answer #10 · answered by linsey_runnels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE HIM GIRL!!!!
He's just playing emotional games with you by crying. Be strong and open your eyes! You don't deserve to be treated this way!
2007-03-06 20:52:38 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋