hey i want to talk to this girl who is really nice and friendly< she goes to my church. im 13 (14 in a month) and she is 13 (14 soon also) I want to know what i can say that isn't stupid and that she would like. we see each other wednesdays and sometimes sundays. im homeschooled she is public schooled. i really want to know thank you!
2007-03-06 12:39:01 · 17 answers · asked by pistoluser 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i can't actually ask a girl on a date till im 17 but i can hang out with them hellpppp!!
2007-03-06 12:44:15 · update #1
Why don't you start out a conversation on the differences and the pros and cons regarding homeschooling and public schooling. Ask her what she plans to do after she graduates and if college is a part of her goals. Find out what profession she'd like to pursue and what her future plans on family, etc. are. People generally like to talk about themselves. You already have church in common, so give it a try! Good luck Kiddo, and remember to treat her like a lady, be respectful, and listen attentively to everything she says. Annie
2007-03-06 12:50:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing that is keeping you from being yourself is nerves. Fear of rejection is holding you back. There is nothing for her to reject until you are 17 so just be her friend for now and see what happens....
Sometimes the most meaningful relationships later in life start from a close friendship. Don't worry about what to say. Let it happen naturally..."what did you do at school today?" "did anything funny or odd happen?" Good luck!
2007-03-06 20:49:15 · answer #2 · answered by rggiggles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask for her phone number. Get her talking about public schools, tell her about you being homeschooled. Compliment her. Be yourself and be nice. Just strike up a conversation with her and things will flow. Good luck and relax, you seem like a really nice guy and and she will respond to that!
2007-03-06 20:45:34 · answer #3 · answered by Aron H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her if she would like to hang out with you sometime, exchange phone numbers, and when you guys are talking about what you want to go and do remember to ask her what she likes to do instead of just telling her, girls like to feel like their opinion matters. Maybe start hanging out with her and some other firends so you guys can get to know each other better, plus that way you don't have to be the one to think of what to talk about the whole time.
2007-03-06 20:48:47 · answer #4 · answered by loveismagic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her some little questions like If she has a bf or anything like that then after you small talk casuallly bring up hanging out ask her if she wants to go to the movies or to the mall anything.
2007-03-06 20:52:52 · answer #5 · answered by Tessa N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All girls love to be complimented:clothes,hair,eyes,ect...compliment her. You won't sound stupid, you'll sound sweet and sincere. Ask her out! May be " I was wondering if you were doing anything Friday. Do you want to hang out?".Simple and straight forward. Maybe the movies, bowling, batting cages. If you or she can't yet date, go on a group outing. Good Luck!!!!!!
2007-03-06 20:49:25 · answer #6 · answered by snowflake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pal, if you try to impress a girl, impress her with who the real you, and there is no harm in that...believe me no matter what you ask, it will work well if you and her have the connection!
just a hint in case you are totally lost in words....be focused on what you like the most in her, hair, eyes, lips..ETC..
then what you do is you tell her what you feel about it! then move on from there!
hope it will help!
2007-03-06 20:48:25 · answer #7 · answered by aziz_aron 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ask her how she is and if your can get togeher and talk about you and her. Also let her know that you are home schooled that way she won't get mad because she can't find you in school. If you too shy to really talk with her then write her a letter telling what and how you feel about her.
2007-03-06 20:44:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well try to say u look nice today and then if u get a chance to catch her not talking to her friends tell her do u want to go out with me to the moves or something.
2007-03-06 20:47:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, little feller.......There's your problem right there! Homeschoolin does NOT allow for the social contact that every kid NEEDS. Tell your parents that they are doing you a BIG injustice by keeping you imprisoned at home. They need to let you go.
2007-03-06 20:48:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋