me and my boyfriend are planning to have sex for the first time together..and we are both virgins..so is anything gonna happen that i need to be prepared for besides it itself..like anything gonna go on during it?
2007-03-06 12:38:33 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, first off, theres a few things that are going to/could happen. This may not happen to you, but it happens to many many girls, it might hurt because of your hymen being broken. It could already be partially torn, completely gone, fully intact, or you just could have been born without one. When your hymen breaks, if it is still in tact, you may have some bleeding. This doesn't happen to everyone, but it is very common. If it hurts, tell him to take it really slow. The more you keep doing it though, the less it will hurt. The first time is not always enjoyable. To make it less painful and easier for him to slide in, use some KY lubricant.
Also, you probably already know, he is most likely going to ejaculate. If you are wearing a condom, which is suggest you do, he will ejaculate in the condom and you can just tie the end up and throw it away. If you are not using a condom, he will ejaculate in you, or you can have him pull out. When he ejaculates inside you without pulling out, it kind of feels like you have a lot of heavy discharge.
Just make sure you have tissues nearby so he can whipe off... and you can too, especially if you're bleeding a little.
Hope I helped, be safe and have fun! =)
2007-03-06 12:54:07 · answer #1 · answered by Themi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its gonna hurt for one. Use protection if your gonna do "it". Since its the first time your are gonna bleed. You should probably get on birthcontrol too. Afterwards you need to start going to get check up down "there". But make sure he's the one you want to have sex with for the first time.
2007-03-06 12:48:25 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have sex! What you crazy? Y'all gotta be married first if y'all love each other very much. Having sex without being married can do some serious damage to your life like if y'all spilt up who's going to take care of the kids? It can mess up your life. Even get STD's. After y'all get married then go the both of y'all go to a doctor and what to do, and check if either of y'all have AIDS, HIV, or even STD's. It's better safe then sorry for life. If all traffic lights tell green go for it. This is the safest way to do it.
2007-03-06 12:46:22 · answer #3 · answered by Robby M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will be a little painful for the first few times, then, gets better after that. You will probably most likely bleed, from your hymen being broken, but other than all this and nerves, you should be ok after the first few times.
2007-03-06 12:50:46 · answer #4 · answered by mlock123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm.. i lost my virginity to my bf, who wasn't a virgin. i think all you need to prepare for is the "pain". it hurt me ALOT, mainly because he just stuck it in there, how inconsiderate lOL!.... maybe if he would've fingered me first, it wouldnt of hurt as much. anyway...USE A RUBBER!! some ppl say "but you cant get preg. the first time" <
2007-03-06 12:43:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might bleed, thats waht happens to most girl's first time. Its nothing to be scared about its just natural, with no pain. Mabey put a towel under you beofre you go at it....You also might want to consider a lubricant.
2007-03-06 12:42:54 · answer #6 · answered by Dougie♥Poynter_lover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex between two people is like a snow flake. No two experiences are alike. You are just going to have to do it to find out. Use a condom, and maybe a little personal lubricant, like KY jelly. Enjoy!
2007-03-06 12:43:27 · answer #7 · answered by sustasue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well use a condom and try not to get aids and HIV. oh don't forget use protection and don't get pregnant either. You can do all of this when u r ready so i guess u r ready sense u talked about this on yahoo answers.
2007-03-06 12:48:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure to be careful...that's all I can say...it's probably not going to be great the first time around, so don't feel let down.
2007-03-06 12:42:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's going to HURT LIKE H E L L !! You're too young. Why dont you wait a while longer.
2007-03-06 12:45:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋