How do yooh become more outgoing toward someone that your not used to talking to and there's a definite chance that it's gonna b akward on the first time. This person does wanna tlk 2 u 2 tho, so tht wont b a problem
2007-03-06 12:37:19 · 9 answers · asked by xoiloveyoohlikewoahx3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
break the ice with a joke you know they will have to laugh at. or ask them a question releant to the present situtation. planning never works you should go with the flow of things.
2007-03-06 12:48:39 · answer #1 · answered by glofairi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being paranoid about something that hasn't happened yet. If you act like nothing is going to happen and everything will be fine then more than likely it will be. If you approach the situation in fear then you "invite" the negative...
Take control of your emotions and make the best of the situation!
2007-03-06 20:44:27 · answer #2 · answered by rggiggles 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Irish peeps drink alot, so dont listen to him. The real way to do it is just stay comfortable and be confident that things wont go wrong, and trust me, no ones gonna hate you even if you dont talk to them, so make the most out of the situation, like its your last day, and wing it.
2007-03-06 20:42:07 · answer #3 · answered by youshouldbedead 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well just go talk to him and talk about anything that comes to mind. ALso move slow so he won't think your been pushy. But just be yourself and don't build yourself to something your not, in other words be honest.
2007-03-06 20:47:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask the person questions about them self! People LOVE talking about them self.. (most people's favorite topic!). Just be receptive to what they are saying... using body language.. nodding, eye contact, smiling.. you'll do fine!
2007-03-06 20:45:40 · answer #5 · answered by Cambria 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Drink alcohol it makes you comfortable around every1.
2007-03-06 20:39:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
try to loosen up a little...get to know the person ....have a few laughs
2007-03-06 20:42:30 · answer #7 · answered by thanh hien 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell them to be themselves and you do the same
2007-03-06 20:46:46 · answer #8 · answered by D.Gunn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk about everything
2007-03-06 20:39:37 · answer #9 · answered by Wendy C 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋