He spents alot of his time with his work and less time is spent with me(phone conversation)..
His got kids for his previous relationships...but is not married..
He dosent want to let go of me.......????????he working in another province and i'm living in another province we quite far apart....
I dont trust him because i know that his a guy who's got a lot girlfriends here and there.., i can name a few but i'm not in the mood of naming them! I cant feel the love between both of us....
so please help me out with this relationship???
2007-03-06 12:36:06 · 9 answers · asked by frankrr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I really think yooh should move on.... and find a guy whos just as much devoted to yooh as yooh are to him!!
2007-03-06 12:39:47 · answer #1 · answered by xoiloveyoohlikewoahx3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont mention if he is actually your BOYFRIEND or if its jst a RELATIONSHIP that yhou believe will gradually become intimate. i have a long distance relatinoship with my boyfriend (i live in tasmania, he lives in queensland which are different states in Australia) and its very hard. the basis of any relationship though is Trust and sounds to me like you DONT trust him. if you cant trust him youre not ever going to believe him, your going to become paranoid and there are going to be arguments very soon on being honest etc. if you think that he is going to get or be with other women while he is living away from you, maybe you should defer the relationship until you are both living near each other (preferably in teh same province!) and see each other regularly. you say you can 'feel' teh love but didnt mention if he actually 'said' he loved you.. how did you two meet? has he had a history of cheating? you need to really get to know this guy before labelling it as a relationship otherwise im fearing you will be the one to get hurt. talk to him, communcation is always good and is important, you need to let your feelings out in teh open being honest so he knows how you feel and where youre at, its then up to him to either make you believe he is loyal and loving, or he can back out of the relationship.. good luck =)
2007-03-06 20:49:14 · answer #2 · answered by WomanSoHeartless 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm goin' to tell you the samething I told my best friend. Long distance relationships aren't good. All they do is make your life worse than what it is. So do yourself a favor get out of this relationship. Plus if you can't feel the love between you two then why are you evn with him? Just get out while you can. Trust me you won't have to worry so much. Tell him you guys can still be friends and all.
2007-03-06 20:43:15 · answer #3 · answered by Briann M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel.. it's not fair if he doesn't want to let you go but makes no time for you.
is this the situation all the time or is it just a rough patch, where he's more busy than normal? if you don't trust him, that's reason enough to end the relationship. can there be love without any trust? take a good look at your relationship - you live far apart, you don't think you love him anymore, you don't trust him, he hardly makes time for you...? hmmmm.
2007-03-06 20:41:23 · answer #4 · answered by drummergirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships hardly ever work cuz both of you are usually going out with others in the mean time. You're wasting your time girl.
2007-03-06 20:39:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't trust him, the relationship won't work. Doesn't matter if it's long distance or not. There has to be trust and communication for it to work out. If you don't trust him, I'd get out of it now before you get hurt!
2007-03-06 20:40:05 · answer #6 · answered by debrenee211 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am sorry to say this but i think you should try and get out of this if you possibly can without getting hurt..i have never found long distance relationships to work to well...trust is a big issue....i know myself that if i can not trust him i am never at rest...always wandering if he is cheating on me..and you must think about the fact that he could bring you home a disease....and i believe if they really love us they will not cheat on us....
2007-03-06 20:41:02 · answer #7 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a shame. They say that long relationships don't last. But if must know more then go to www.lovingyou.com and go under dating (I think or it'll be long relationships already) and then go under long relationships to find out more. I hope you feel better.
2007-03-06 20:40:57 · answer #8 · answered by Robby M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont have one
2007-03-06 20:44:17 · answer #9 · answered by esther h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋