Been dating the love of my life since HS. We work same building,different company. Girl from where I work is trying to get me to go out with her. I have never and will never cheat on my girlfriend. This girl knows my girlfriend and that we are committed. Is it rude for me to tell the girl at work to bug off, I am spoken for. Is there a better way to tell her that i am not interested. She is getting on my nerves.
2007-03-06 12:32:41 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would tell her. " I`m sorry, did you mistake me for a single guy"? I would tell her how much you love your girlfriend, and tell her that her advances are not wanted. Some girls can be rude, I would advise you to be very forward with her.If you have to make a sexual harassment claim. Men can make claims too, I think it would blantanly send her a message.
2007-03-06 12:40:51 · answer #1 · answered by lost2day 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what she is doing is trying to ruin ur relationship with ur girlfriend. cuz she knows that u r in love with you girlfriend and maybe she is jealous that ur girl is maybe hotter than her, she feels intimidated. since you all work in the same place, the best way is to f?%k her and tell her you love ur girl and nothing is going to change the love you have for ur girl.
tust me that will make her (the b@#*h) feel messed up, then she will stop bugging you. and she knows she cant go around saying she f#@ked you like how a guy would say it cuz everyone knows she a ho!! great luck.
2007-03-06 20:54:23 · answer #2 · answered by upgrade u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be nice about it. Don't tell her to bug off. Just state that you are in a committed relationship and that you are not interested in dating anyone else at the moment.
2007-03-06 20:38:40 · answer #3 · answered by RKO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no wrong way other than to think that there is any other way than telling her that you are not interested. You are suffeing over this, so end the suffeing. If it is raining, get out of the rain. But is sounds like you may be feeling guilty about this.. and you are wondering if the love of your life is really your love of your life. If she was, then there really would be no confusion about what to do now would there?
2007-03-06 20:39:46 · answer #4 · answered by Che K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Heck no your not wrong because i am going through the same thing me and my boyfriend are goin on 2 years of being together and his ex cant seem to let it go. After all she cheated on him, and when me and him met and started talkin she couldn't take and she started blowing his phone up 24/7. He got his number changed but she somehow managed to get his new number. Its REALLY aggravating and to me it seems like he isn't being forceful enough in telling her to back off. But who knows he might be but i dont think he is.
2007-03-06 20:56:11 · answer #5 · answered by janetgoins19 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her a card that is sad of course and tell her that you are in lov with your girlfriend and that yo will never cheat on her. Tell her that love is out there waiting for her and that you are not it to keep looking
2007-03-06 20:37:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak with her privately so she won't be embarrassed. Simply tell her that although you are flattered that she like you, you are in love with your girlfriend and could never cheat on her.
2007-03-06 20:39:40 · answer #7 · answered by QT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her again to her face that you are dating someone. Just to make sure she really knows and understands. If that doesn't work, either tell a supervisor or get your gf involved.
2007-03-06 20:37:52 · answer #8 · answered by btjuana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i definately agree with danny s. why would you want to be with someone who wants to break up your relationship just for a good time? tell her no and tell her you'd appreciate it if she would stop asking and leave you alone. and if she doesnt get the message, be a little bit more forceful. sometimes you have to be mean to get the message across.
2007-03-06 20:38:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore her...she'll get the picture eventually. If she doesn't, you might have to be more direct...tell her you're involved in a relationship in which you're very happy.
2007-03-06 20:37:36 · answer #10 · answered by idog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋