he never see's where he is wrong and has no problem blameing others and it really is at point where I don't know if I can stay with him
2007-03-06 12:31:18 · 17 answers · asked by debam bam 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's never going to change. Accept him as he is or move on.
2007-03-06 12:33:20 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh girl, been there done that.
He actually is probably like my ex and has a mental disorder where he cant see he is at fault in any way.
Its a hard life. I was with mine for over a year.
I had to get out.
You have to figure out if u can put up with it or not. It doesnt get better and he will never get treatment cause he dont think hes wrong in feeling the way he does.
I couldnt deal with it.
I wish u luck as I know your ordeal. I loved my ex too, but sometimes love just isnt enough.
GOod luck hun.
2007-03-06 20:37:00 · answer #2 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well to tell you the truth that reminds me of me some how....(LOL)
clear cut, lay it out, tell him what you feel each time you do have seen him or hearing him reacting like that, try to face the problem with him rather then asking your friends, because its a matter of you and him, some friends try to show you the way (totally wrong way) and tell you how to fight is strong, the end of the day, you will be sad heart broken and you can only blame yourself at that time.
so ask him why he behave like that, why he react like that, most of the time he might miss you, or somebody else is pushing him, or he bite the dust before you...
hope that will help!
2007-03-06 20:37:58 · answer #3 · answered by aziz_aron 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello my name is maya and all I have to say is that if you believe that this man is blaming you for every thing and can't stand up like a man and tell the truth when he is wrong GIRL LEAVE HIS BUTT because I believe that there is someone out there for you so honey just let him go you're stressing your self out because of some lie *** niga honey my roll model is that there is more fish in the sea and what I mean by that is he aint the only ''man'' out there that you can get im sure .
2007-03-08 22:25:23 · answer #4 · answered by maya damarnea riley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, allow me to mention one thing. Whenever someone says they're "in love" with someone, it sounds fake to me, like it's not real love. It's almost like an infatuation or something. I don't know...it's kinda hard to explain, but the fact that you said you're "in love" with him and also considering leaving him tells me you do NOT love him, and you'd probably be best leaving him. Hope this helps in some way.
2007-03-06 20:35:50 · answer #5 · answered by idog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stay... move on! Why are you whining about a totally resolvable situation? Why are you STUCK over this? Do you not know how many more men there are out there!?
C'mon... move it! Life's too short!
2007-03-06 20:35:33 · answer #6 · answered by love_2b_curious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do is change how you act to what he says and does. He is NOT going to change if he doesnt want to change. So now its in your corner if you want to spend your life with someone that acts this way and if you deserve better for yourself or not. good luck.
2007-03-06 20:38:24 · answer #7 · answered by hopefloats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy sounds like trouble. If you don't want drama later on in life you might as well say goodbye to this one. A guy who never thinks he is wrong........ Leave him
2007-03-06 20:33:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then dont stay with him. I'm not saying dont compromise, but if someone cant change for you then leave him.
2007-03-06 20:34:02 · answer #9 · answered by Danny S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you talked to him about it? Get out now - it'll get worse for you as the years go on...
2007-03-06 20:34:49 · answer #10 · answered by JQ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋