I'm white but he had nothing but black girls with big booties on dvd's and magazines. I think he really must prefer them to white women but I don't understand why he would want to be with me if this is the case. Maybe it's just a fantasy I don't know. Help please.
2007-03-06 12:26:25 · 6 answers · asked by mariabianchi 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body ➔ Other - Skin & Body
I wouldn't sweat it.. probably just a fantasy.. Men are such visual creatures.. gotta leave them to their fantasy sex world..
He's a guy... and dont most guys like looking at big bouncy juicy asses (regardless of the skin tone covering the ***) Everything from black women... to Jennifer Lopez.. It's all about drooling over the booty.
Some men love to watch Asian porn because the women are so tiny and petite... doesn't mean they are out trying to hook up with Asian ladies thou... Just love to watch them..
2007-03-06 16:05:45 · answer #1 · answered by reddy_locks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me guess.....you are thinking: "Why is he looking at them when he's got me? What am I, chopped liver?" Am I close or no cigar? Your feelings are hurt and maybe you feel inadaquate in some way? You thinkin' he's tired of you and wants something different? I could be way off base but, in any case, communication is the key to a healthy relationship. The last thing you want to do is to project your fears and/or insecurities onto him by making him feel guilty/bad/dirty/unfaithful. Not sure what occurred when you 'caught' him. Based on your actions and words at that time, you, quite possibly, could have laid the groundwork for your significant other to become secretive, withdrawn, and disinterested in sex with you. Somehow, you're going to have to let him know that you do NOT feel threatened/less desireable by him viewing nude females, OF ANY COLOR/RACE. Porn can have it's +'s & -'s in a relationship. On the upside, porn can bring a little va-va-va-voom into a relationship, generate renewed/new interests, & open up lines of communication that have become stagnant. On the downside, too much porn nooo good, in any relationship. What's the old saying? Everything in moderation.......wise words. This doesn't have to be a negative/bad experience for you and your man. You might do well to turn what you consider lemons into lemonade by using this opportunity to "discover" your babe's fetishes and make him feel "not guilty your honor!" I'm in the most challenging relationship to date so far in my life, with an extremely complex, moody Cancerian. Let me tell you honey, your man looking at beautiful, nude women of color is cake and you should be the one to provide the icing! Use this opportunity to add a new dimension to your sex life, thereby increasing intimacy, which in turn equals a deeper committment to the relationship. Would you want your guy to make you feel guilty/bad if he caught you...uh...well...um..doing what makes you horny & happy? I'm finally at a place in my life where I can watch porn & get myself off, in the presence of my (pain-in-the-a__) Cancerian partner, knowing all the while, he really digs it AND, hopefully learns something at the same time. Although I still have a tendency to be shy/timid that I have to fight off, I'm glad I'm finally mature enough to express my sexuality. One of my favorite porns is "Jenna Loves Pain". (coy smile!) Make things work girlfriend. Do unto your guy as you would have him do unto you. Different strokes for different folks. Peace out! "CaliModel"
2007-03-07 04:10:30 · answer #2 · answered by Me1HotSoCalifChic 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would it make u feel better if they were white? Or are black women not women at all? Advice get over yourself and stop seating about stupid stuff!!!! Don't project ur insecurities unto ur guy or inner prejudice or whatever u have. It is interesting to know that the race of the woman seem to be the reason for ur unhappiness. Now ask yourself why is that?
2014-09-10 07:55:54 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just fantasy
he enjoys to see black women
2007-03-08 23:11:04 · answer #4 · answered by rajan naidu 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
he either has black woman fetish or he just really like big bottoms. don't think nothing of it..it's probably just a phase.
2007-03-07 00:53:57 · answer #5 · answered by roooseeee 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
HE LIKES THE BLACK ONES SISTA
2007-03-07 09:21:57 · answer #6 · answered by DR.PHILL IS THA MEN 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋