i was with this guy, and he seems really into me, but all of a sudden one day he wasn't and we really haven't spoken i got to know him really well and liked him a lot. but now i just want to get over him. he is the player kind you know? the type that has lots of girls...or can get lots of girls, so how can i stop myself from messageing him calling him or even thinking of him for the next month or so at least?
2007-03-06 12:25:12 · 6 answers · asked by Sally G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Every time you want to get a hold of him just think of him in bed with someone else, cuz he is ya know, so why bother with a relationship which you are just being used and thrown away like a paper towel. You're worth alot more than that !!
2007-03-06 12:29:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Will power is a start.
Also, feel free to look around and notice all the other guys that are checking you out.
It's not scientifically studied or anything but your average girl gets checked out at least 10 time per hour. That's a lot of guys you are missing.
2007-03-06 20:29:26 · answer #2 · answered by khanofali 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know i found myself in the same situation but a little more serious...i really loved this man and when i did not go be with him instead of my dying mom he went to his old girlfriend..one thing i have to say even though it is hard...we do not need to contact them..we are better than that and we deserve better...and a player you do not need at all...i would try and stay busy and try to keep him off your mind...it has been months and i still think about this man..and he hurt me..but my mom died the next month and i will never regret being with my mom...........just there is some real losers as men out there......they say love and they can not mean it to do the way they do....
2007-03-06 20:33:22 · answer #3 · answered by sanangel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
MOST DEFINATELY KEEP YOURSELF BUSY! If you exercise that's even better...that can be a great release and also releases endorphines which "make you feel better". If he's really a bad guy and he's not a good person to have in your life just keep reminding yourself that's it's all about YOU and you don't deserve to be treated poorly. We all make our own choices and you should choose what makes you feel BEST about YOURSELF!
Good luck!
2007-03-06 20:40:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about what a dis justice you would be doing yourself if you did call. Concentrate on meeting new guys! Guys that are interested in you. Ones that will be dying to call you!!!!
2007-03-06 20:33:23 · answer #5 · answered by heather 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he still into u? if he is then still hang out with him just like before, if he still acts like a player and thinks he's all that when he's not, then dont bother with him anymore. and MOVE ON. â¥
2007-03-06 20:30:59 · answer #6 · answered by GuitarChik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋