two really horrible things has happened to me because of my husbands poor decisions. Please only positive things I literally feel no hope right now.
2007-03-06 12:13:35 · 8 answers · asked by CB84 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
because you suffer from dellirium, and locate guilt on your husband
2007-03-06 12:22:48 · answer #1 · answered by michael_gdl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think most people go through some horrible experiences in life, and just through a lot of random bad luck, some go through more horrible experiences than others. In our culture, people like to blame others and say they made poor choices or deserved it or whatever, but people say those things because they are uncomfortable realizing that any one of us can get thrown into the dirt or die at any time. Anyone can have bad luck. So if you have a lot of horrible things happening, think on whether you have a pattern of making poor choices, and if not, well, anyone can have bad luck. Rather than trying to understand WHY these things happen, I think it's better to just accept that they did (if you can't fix it or prevent future bad things) and comfort yourself, and move on. Take a nice bath, pet your cat or dog, have a nice day out with a friend, read a novel, take a day off work, whatever. And if the problems you are experiencing are REALLY serious, do those things even more, especially socializing with others. support from others is the number one way to keep your stress under control. I'm a bipolar person, and I'm one of those who had a lot of extra hard knocks in life, so I know that you can get through this!!
2007-03-06 22:06:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have noticed that nobody gets through life unscaythed.
It doesn't matter who you are, you will get whacked, big time, at least once in your life. Maybe this is Karma, telling you that you can't control everything in your life, but it also teaches you to be a survivor.
Don't let things get you down, Of course you can be unhappy with your situation for a while, but Pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and look Karma straight in the face and say "you can't get to me A**Hole". And move on with your life.
Bad times make the good times to come , more special.
2007-03-06 20:26:36 · answer #3 · answered by bob shark 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well hey say that things are meant to happen so maybe is just a test that u have to pass. I dont really know but everyne experiences bad things in their life time. Hope this helped
2007-03-06 20:17:56 · answer #4 · answered by ŁỤĭŞ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have told us what happened to you but anyways if they happened because of your husband then you should really think things over, and be sure bad things happen to everyone.
2007-03-06 20:22:43 · answer #5 · answered by Gustav 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
w/ the bad comes the good, just wait a bit, because everything that happens to you know is going to change the diraction of your life, i.e. you'll have met new people, you'll have learned new lessons, all that jazz and a whole lot more
2007-03-06 20:33:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all that happened is byour fault.As you rightly said that it was your husband decision.pleae take heart and feel relax. Cause you cant turn back the hands of time,but atleast you can help him by comforting him.Take care.
2007-03-06 20:21:38 · answer #7 · answered by ebiyedinak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try this web site: http://www.thesecret.tv/ - the sample of the video is very enlightening and the film is very uplifting. Good Luck!
2007-03-06 20:22:11 · answer #8 · answered by Walking on Sunshine 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋