guys only plz. would you kiss some girl just cuz?

Question

so i found out that my boyfriend has kissed this girl he works with. it was a few months ago apparently but he still! i asked him why and he said just cuz. ok, does this seem like a weird reason to you? should i pursue this or just let it go? it kind of bothers me. or am i just being overly protective? but if your girlfriends were kissing guys "just cuz", wouldn't you be a little jealous too?

Answer 1

I am a non-wuss romantic and get very INTIMATE with a lot of girls that I talk with.

I have this thing where if I look into a girl's eyes too long, I will get into kiss mode. I actually get closer, stroke hair, and cup her face in my hand. I also keep intense eye contact for a long time. So yeah, I COULD do that, but I restrain myself because there would be a lot of social problems because of the jealousy thing you're talking about.

The whole thing depends on him. If this guy hangs out with the girl a bit too much, then it is BAD because he probably FEELS something as well as being attracted.

I would immediately DROP a girl if she kissed when we were EXCLUSIVE because there are way more attractive girls in the world than attractive guys.

If you WANT this guy, then chill about it and NEVER bring it up again. He might be using it to test you and you shouldn't look into it anymore anyways. If he does it again, you MUST drop him to prevent future problems and man-hating.

Hope I helped,
Franklin

Answer 2

Don't mind those first few rude answers..you have a perfectly good reason to be jealous. Of course he kissed her for a reason. No one kisses someone "just cause". He just said that because he knows that if he tells you the REAL reason (He obviously thinks your ignorant), you will break up with him, yell at him, etc.

I think you should just dump him and move on.."just cause" is not a valid reason.

Answer 3

Hell yes! Sure if a guy finds some dish that wan't to kiss him, he won't turn it down. at least not if he cares for and has a girlfriend.
What he did was wrong, and you are perfectly right in feeling the way you do.
He had no thoughts of your feelings in the matter. So you are right to be bothered.
Was it just a kiss or more. Who knows? He should at least apologize and ask for your forgiveness, and promise not to repeat it.

Answer 4

I would be very jealous. if i had a girlfriend and she kissed another guy i would dump her. Yeah "cuz" is not a good reason

Answer 5

I am an insanely jealous boyfriend. i can't stand it when she hugs other guys. because i see what the guys are thinking. i hate it. but whatever. i won't kiss a girl just because. no way. i love my girlfriend way to much than to just mess with her like that. its like casual sex. it just doesn't happen. if he says, just cuz. confront him. be serious. force an answer from him. he might break up with you, but just cuz is not a good answer.

Answer 6

You don't kiss girls "just cause" there is always a reason whether you liked her or were paid to do it no matter what. It is up to you if you want to give him a second chance but if you give him a second chance don't go past that.

Answer 7

Depends the type of kiss.

I'd dig a little deeper.

I mean, I'm so busy kissing my workmates all day that I hardly have any time to do any actual work, right?

Answer 8

Honey if your bf is kissing someone else then why the h e l l r u still with him. He's probably cheated on u 2. Get real girl. He's a loser if he's kissing someone else. How would he like it if YOU kissed someone else.

Answer 9

Yeah, when i get happy i go up to my friends and pluck um on the cheek for joy. Who doesn't. LIP to LIP no, but kisses for JOY!!!!!

So yeah im a guy who kisses just cuz

Talk to your Man, its what we are here for. Someone else to talk too.
Thats my beleif anyway

Answer 10

Get rid of him because he doesnt have true fellings for you. If my girlfriend kissed another guy I would leave her and kick the other guys ***.