Ahh well this might be long but i need help. This guy is interrested in me and well i like him too.. but somethings just blocking me from going for him. I feel scared that things aren't going to go great. I'm scared he's gonna hurt me or this relationship will end up like all my friends. Like my sister has a perfect boyfriend when she wasmy age and my parents loved him. I'm scared that they won't think too highly ofhim .I dontw know what to do. please help
2007-03-06 12:04:20 · 12 answers · asked by itsgoingtobealright 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Can you back up your fears, or are they irrational. If you're just a fearful person, then you need to overcome it or it will run your life. Negative things happen to all at one time or another and we learn from them and move on. You won't be able to experience the joys in life if you live it in fear.
2007-03-06 12:10:39 · answer #1 · answered by VW 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All relationships are scary at first, until you are sure of the intentions of your partner. The only way to find out is to give it a try, see what happens, and learn from the experience.
2007-03-06 12:08:43 · answer #2 · answered by lisateric 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be you and it will work or it wont but you cant stand back and be on some hype of woulda coulda shoulda so go out with him and it will work or it wont men come a dime a dozen i wouldn't trip if i was you.
2007-03-06 12:08:56 · answer #3 · answered by LuckyLadyL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go for it!!! You'll never know if you don't try! Besides, if you let your worries about your parents affect your dating, you're probably going to develop a grudge against your parents over time.
2007-03-06 12:43:01 · answer #4 · answered by idog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him you should go for him, you shouldn't already be thinking the worst of things. And you shouldn't worry about your parents liking him. Your the one dating him not them.
2007-03-06 12:09:07 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually woman's intuition is pretty strong, why start something that you already know is going to fail? When its right you will know and have no doubts.
2007-03-06 12:13:21 · answer #6 · answered by NewYork 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should just try talking to him.
i suggest you becomee friends & go from there [;
hope everything will bee fine.
also; dont worry! if this boy likes you and you like him, nothing else should come between you two
2007-03-06 12:11:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're hesitating, then it's probably not the greatest idea to date him just yet. until you get over these insecurities, your relationship won't be as healthy as it could be.
2007-03-06 12:24:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't let your fear cloud your judgement
if you like this guy, go for it
if you don't, you might really miss out on something good
2007-03-06 12:07:11 · answer #9 · answered by Ocean Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like this guy, go for it! But if your suspicous of him hurting you, HURT HIM FIRST!!!!!
2007-03-06 12:08:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋