i just wanna learn that technigue as iam completely poor when it comes to initializing one . i just realized iam failing despite being guite brave in approaching them ,however they find out next that they have no interest in what i say . honestly , its almost 15 girls got boared soon after our conversation :( .
2007-03-06 11:51:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ASk a girl what her favorite song to dance to is, request it from the dj. Clubs are upbeat so stick with keeping the ocnversation light hearted and fun!
2007-03-06 11:54:58 · answer #1 · answered by amani_uni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no real conversation to impress women in clubs except light hearted and entertained conversation., Your best bet is to flirt with-in the conversation, but be more sober then them and politely cut in on good conversations. They will thrive on that alone. Most of the times you rarely have the chance to talk to anyone at a club because you can't hear each other anyway. That does not help the situation. Get there early, introduce yourself, get there name, Ask them to dance, and if you get there number before the end of the night you got it made. Also for every girl you approach one will approach you and you may not even realize it. They may be the ones that are waiting for your conversation.
2007-03-06 20:13:02 · answer #2 · answered by Big B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People go to clubs to have fun so make sure you talk about fun stuff. Girls love talking about the latest gossip, like Britney shaving her head and stuff like that. So I would make fun of what ever is going on in the gossip news and stuff like that. Also stay away from the interview questions (where do you go to school, where do you work, where do you live, etc). Also if there is a group of girls it is good to engage the whole group and make them like you or one of the friends will probably pull her away from you. Kidding her about something she does/wears is good too as long as she knows it's obviously a joke. Don't want to insult anyone here. Also if you can dance get her on the dance floor as soon as possible. Women love a guy who's not afraid to get out and bust a move. Main thing is that girls don't want to talk to a boring guy in the clubs or anywhere for that matter. I'm sure you are not boring when hanging with your buddies, so just try to capture that same mindset when talking to girls.
2007-03-06 20:14:53 · answer #3 · answered by Party Bum 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When u walk up 2 em start the convo off w/
"Do u believe in luv @ first sight... or do i need 2 walk by again"
This makes u interesting and they'll want 2 no more
2007-03-06 19:55:06 · answer #4 · answered by bebedol27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about ONLY the girl in question...girls love to prattle on about themselves :) Good luck to you.
2007-03-06 19:55:19 · answer #5 · answered by 452 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um be yourself?
sorry i really dont know
2007-03-06 19:55:38 · answer #6 · answered by DanceForJoy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋