I have gone out on 3 dates with this woman, one of which was Valentines day where I briefly met her mother who was in town vsiting/work. Things were good, she was inquisitive on my behald, and the signs she was interested were present. We communicated rather regularly and went out when we were both free (heavy schedules) She made plans for us before leaving for a 10 day business trip. We had a little issue but it was resolved before she left. She said she would stay in contact during her trip, however, no news from her and she blamed it on 'dropped texts msgs'. Bumped into her the day she returned from her trip; actually it seemed that she tried to avoid me. We had a little conversation and I asked if she was interested to grab a bite to eat. She said she was busy and she made plans for 4 days later (partly because of our busy schedules). She seemed to be distant and I felt a negative vide for her and not that excited of meeting. Can I get an objective opinion of what all this means?
2007-03-06 11:46:52 · 9 answers · asked by Issaac33 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like she had a change of mind, I just wish she would have told you straight out instead of trying to avoid you or giving you the cold shoulder. If you want to be really sure, ask her. At least then you will know where you're standing and go from there.
2007-03-06 11:53:24 · answer #1 · answered by VW 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't know until you ask her. Sorry to break this to you, but it may be something, it may be nothing. There was an issue, and for you it was resolved. Was it for her? How will you know if you don't just pony up and ask. Something like, "I can't tell if it is just our busy schedules that is keeping us at a distance, or if it is something else. I like you, but if you aren't interested, I will understand and leave you alone. But I would be kicking myself if I didn't ask and honest question in hopes of getting an honest answer . . . " and see what she says.
All the best.
2007-03-06 19:54:17 · answer #2 · answered by drg20202004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like she may not be interested anymore or whatever the issue was before she left changed her feelings about you. Sorry, but if it was me, I would be dying to see you when I got back, and not wait for 4 days to make a connection. She might be playing games, so get out while you can!!
2007-03-06 19:51:50 · answer #3 · answered by TNP Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your instincs have already given you the answer by the sounds of it. Shes not interested, sorry but shes not making effort and she was distant so it wont work.
Im sure you want someone who 100% wants to hang out with the person that you are.
All the best buddy
2007-03-06 19:52:58 · answer #4 · answered by Nat555 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was probably preoccupied with something when you ran into her. If you made another date wait and feel it out then and see what happens.
2007-03-06 19:51:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she met someone else that she liked during her bussines trip. I'm sorry for you, man. It just wasn't meant to be...
2007-03-06 19:56:33 · answer #6 · answered by Opas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont kno what's wrong with that woman, ask her whats up with how she's actin
2007-03-06 21:33:19 · answer #7 · answered by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She met someone else. Move on.
2007-03-06 19:58:16 · answer #8 · answered by Kam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to me i would feel like she played me or used me. toyed with me. that is what i think she did to you.
2007-03-06 19:51:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋