I don't get nervous, or scared at what she might say to me, instead, because we haven't spoken for a while (not because of something bad though), I'm scared she won't even acknowledge me. How can I get past this?
2007-03-06 11:44:57 · 10 answers · asked by stephenjlb 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's like throwing up in many ways. Some times you go out of your way not to throw up by consuming drugs or drinking some tea but eventually when you do throw up you feel better after. So you have to ask yourself how much longer will you torment yourself over this issue. If she does treat you coldly you will know to move on to the next. Nothing ventured nothing gained. Good luck and give yourself a brake.
2007-03-06 11:50:10 · answer #1 · answered by Roger89 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this is what i usually tell my friends " If you don't ask her how will you know if she will say yes. If you haven't spoken in a while then start to speak to her, and make her fell that you care for her. So even though she might say no or yes you have to ask her because if you dont someone else might ask her out and you will never find out if she like you.
2007-03-06 20:22:05 · answer #2 · answered by forgoten child 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to relax. Don't assumed. You never know unless you've tried. Give her a nice smile and ask her if she'll like to go out for a cuppa or movie with you. If yes, good luck! Should she declined your invite, be gentle, thank her and move away gently without feeling insulted or upset. People has freedom to choose.
2007-03-06 19:48:52 · answer #3 · answered by SGElite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have to rectify whatever it was that you said or did to make her stop talking to you in the first place. Then if you get passed that just say to her that you have to tickets to a show of some kind, preferably something that she would be interested in, and would she like to go with you.
2007-03-06 19:50:23 · answer #4 · answered by Alwyn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call or go see her. Tell her that you have really been thinking of her a lot , you are sorry that she and you are not still together. Ask if she would like to go out, tell her to pick the place, then treat her like your really happy, just to be talking to her again.
2007-03-06 19:50:34 · answer #5 · answered by zack 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get past this is simply ask her. If your not afraid of what she might say just do it.
2007-03-06 19:49:04 · answer #6 · answered by Lisa H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say 'hi' to her and see if she acknowledges you, if she does, then ask her out, if she doesn't, then all you've lost is your 'hi'.
2007-03-06 19:48:22 · answer #7 · answered by ailee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just relax and hope for the best
the worst she can do is reject you
and if she does, move on
2007-03-06 19:54:49 · answer #8 · answered by Ocean Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
control mind
2007-03-06 19:48:13 · answer #9 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. If she don't like you, sucks for her.
2007-03-06 20:19:59 · answer #10 · answered by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋