but he cheated on me 3 times and then one of the three times he said that he didnt care about me....should I take him back??
2007-03-06 11:40:42 · 38 answers · asked by **BeautiFul** 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO! whatever you do dont take him back. mine did that and i listened and it was the biggest mistake of my life. if he said he doesnt care about you he probably means it. dont go out with him. you seem nice for considering him (i wouldnt) and i know you can do better.
best of luck
xoxo
2007-03-06 11:44:25 · answer #1 · answered by DanceForJoy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-06 04:49:36 · answer #2 · answered by Joseph 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Ok Girl. I know Exactly Where Youre At. You Still Care about him Dont You? Yea. If So We're In the Same Boat. All My friends Said This To Me So Im Gonna Say it To You. "Dont do it. Hes not Worth it. He has no Respect For You. If he Cared about You he Would Never hurt You so Many Times."
Dont Give in. Stay Strong. Make Him Chase You and then Think About if Hes worth it..If hes worthy enough for another Chance. If He deserves You.
2007-03-06 11:44:56 · answer #3 · answered by MO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you want. If you want to be suspicious and live your life in a state of neurosis, by all means, take him back.
If you are just looking for a casual/sexual relationship where feelings are not important, but a common history makes it feel like less of a one night stand, then yeah, do it.
If, however, you are looking for anything remotely like a healthy relationship, I just have to wonder why you would even be asking. he is not worth your time and you deserve better than he is willing to give.
Get over him and find someone who knows what he has WHEN he has you . . .
2007-03-06 11:48:38 · answer #4 · answered by drg20202004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I think you deserve a lot better than this guy. Maybe by being with him, you lost some confidence. I mean, come on, if he cheated on you 3 times and said he didn't care about you. I think you should focus your energy on being happy with your friends and then a guy who is much better will come along.
I would be really happy if this guy, who was so bad to you sees that he missed out on a good thing
good luck
2007-03-06 11:47:18 · answer #5 · answered by glim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck no! Girl u would be crazy to have that fool back.
Let him cheat on his other gals, not on you.
Get a good guy, dont waste time on something u already know is bad.
Why r u even considering it? Thats insane.
If u take him back, u deserve all u get.
Sorry hun, but its the truth.
He will cheat again. No doubt about it.
2007-03-06 11:46:54 · answer #6 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never, not if you love yourself even a little. How many times will he cheat on you the next time? Him cheating once could be forgivable, but three times............come on!! You know you should NOT take him back, and better yet, never speak to this jerk again.
2007-03-06 11:45:36 · answer #7 · answered by TNP Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three times a cheat will be a life-time cheat. Drop him and move on with your life. You deserve someone better.
2007-03-06 11:44:24 · answer #8 · answered by SGElite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no man if a guy cheated on u 3 times i mean really 3 times it could mean that he's gonna cheat on u for the 4 th time and if u like him well maybe u should give him a chance this is actually your decision but if i was u i'll probably won't give him a chance
2007-03-06 11:44:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't take him back simply because he's not trust worthy. If there is no trust the relationship isn't going to be right. Besides he said he didn't care about you, those are harsh words. You definitely can do better than him, all men aren't like that. Love is special!!!
2007-03-06 11:50:44 · answer #10 · answered by Babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't. If he cheated on you that many times, then he'll cheat on you again. If you take him back, I'm almost sure he'll do it again....because you knew about the past and still took him back. I really think if you take him back, you're setting yourself up to get hurt by him. Think about this very carefully. Best of luck to you.
2007-03-06 11:49:27 · answer #11 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋