This girl used to care a lot about me, but it seemed like everytime we got together that I would break up with her and hurt feelings. I regret treating her the way I did to this day. I wish I had never taken her granted. She has a boyfriend now and seems very happy with him, I am happy for her. I told her how I feel and she just wants to be friends, I kinda expected her to say that, although I was disappointed. I guess this is karma's way of repaying me..it's like that old saying goes "you don't know what you got untill it's gone." I feel so messed up inside and I am full or quilt and regret. Does anyone have advice on how to handle this situation
2007-03-06 11:36:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you f***ed up big time. She said she only wants to be friends now so the only thing you can do is move on and not make the same mistake again.
2007-03-06 11:41:25 · answer #1 · answered by dovey 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have to move on too, no matter how badly it hurts. I'm not saying to go out and start dating right away, but you have to give up on this girl. Throw yourself into a new hobby or interest. And remember how horribly you feel right now, that way next time you have a good thing with a girl, you won't treat her badly and ruin it! Good Luck.
2007-03-06 11:41:31 · answer #2 · answered by nimo22 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep busy and hang out with your friends and family, it will keep your mind off of her. Just be happy for her and find yourself another girl. Next time try to avoid making the same mistakes again.
2007-03-06 11:42:18 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take this karmic experience and use it not to make the same mistake with other lovely ladies. live and learn from your mistakes. Remember what you are feeling is probably only a fraction of what she went through - being pushed and pulled in whatever direction you wanted her to go in.
2007-03-06 11:43:46 · answer #4 · answered by Trish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn from it. You can't change the past.
I know the above words are obvious, short, and simple; but unless there's a time machine out there that you have access to, what are you going to do? Do all the research you can to invent one?
Oh, and if you do invent one, can you please contact me, so that i can use it to? I have so many regrets.
2007-03-06 11:44:06 · answer #5 · answered by F G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to take time for yourself. Go out and do things. Do your best to live without her and just forgive yourself before it kills you. It can eat at you and it could hurt your body. Do what you can to live life and just date and not have a girlfriend for awhile unless you want time for yourself or a little while.
2007-03-06 11:41:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow totally time for you to move on IMO, if you still care for this girl then you will leave her alone. Real 2nd chances don't come around often in life but if it does for you then it was meant to be. But don't and I mean don't pursue this any longer.
2007-03-06 11:42:25 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and wait til faith steps in either to bring yal together or find a true love
2007-03-06 11:41:44 · answer #8 · answered by shocker83_fear_me23 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
move on - plenty fish in the sea even if you cannot see them at present. Stop wasting time - that is the one resource we have on a limited basis! go seek and find another soulmate - now!
2007-03-06 11:41:38 · answer #9 · answered by Andy W 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
understand her reasons and respect her wishes maybe in years to come something may rekindel but you must not hang on..but move on for yourself.You need to become stronger for yourself to beable to love completly again.Good luck!
2007-03-06 11:41:07 · answer #10 · answered by swtluvingcntrygirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋