I think most guys are looking for some sort of signal that the girl responds to them, likes them. Guys are very dense (obtuse, stunned, stupid, whatever) so we don't always pick up on what a girl may be trying to hint. Also, guys are very scared of rejection - at least, the ones you do want to know. SO they are afraid to assume that it's ok to talk to you if they don't see a sign. Smile at them.
So if a guy tries to talk to you and doesn't get the vibe that you are interested, he'll wander away rather than risk getting shot down.
Guys like shy girls. A bossy, demanding girl is a turn off.
2007-03-06 11:48:21
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answered by Anon 7
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I like a shy girl at the moment. it's hard to get contact going but shy girls are really cute
2007-03-06 19:40:46
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answered by Anonymous
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I'm also shy and wondering
Good question!
I'm a girl so all I can really say is that the kind of guys that do fall for me tend to be interested in the so-called "mystery" of the fact that I don't give everything away at first conversation...w/e.
They tend to be extremes, though. Either real gentlemen or real perverts. Woe is me. Whatever. lol. Still single but looking for someone *amazing*...I'm sure he'll come along. eventually.
Good luck to you (and all other shy girls out there :)
2007-03-06 19:41:50
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answered by abby j 5
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Most guys would like shy girls... they are very sweet and usually simple to get along with..
2007-03-06 19:40:23
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answered by sha m 2
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shy girls can be cool they have a mystery round them they manage to keep my attention as i wonder what there like, mail me if ya want
2007-03-06 19:41:08
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answered by nightwallwriter 2
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thats so cute but if shes shy i may be too.
2007-03-06 19:41:10
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answered by Anonymous
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They're kinda cute!
2007-03-06 19:45:20
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answered by Anonymous
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this is a good question. I shall star it. =]
2007-03-06 19:40:30
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answered by Anonymous
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