I dunno how to stop thinking of my ex, I dream about him alot too, what can help me stop?

Question

I had a boyfriend for about 5 years 2 years straight & then the rest of the years off & on. he was my first and i was his. I did anything for this guy. but then he changed he slept some other girl & got her pregnant. I still have to see him though because my new boyfriend who i have been with for 6 months now is friends with that girl. I cry alot still because even though he did treat me bad he was my best friend for so long and that one person who I could talk to about anything. I loved him regardless of all the wrongs and rights. Now I feel I can never have that with anyone else. I can talk to my new bf, but he is really sensitive more than I am so I have to be very careful on what I say around him even if its a joke he takes it serious. he is really sweet though. I feel bad sometimes cause when well be in the car ill start thinking of my ex, & be missing him & then at night ill dream about him too. I feel bad and wrong. what do i do?

Answer 1

hm... if he someone u really love, its normal for u to think or even dream of him... best way is to try talk to friends or even ur bf about it... tell him how you feel... as a saying goes... take it or leave it... =P

Answer 2

Here's an idea. Whenever you think about him, run full speed into a wall head first. pretty soon, if you are not completely stupid, you will associate him with pain and a headache.. Thus correcting your behaviour.

Answer 3

i think you should give yourself some space from your new boyfriend. because sounds like, you still have feelings for your ex & i think that could come between you and your new bf.

Answer 4

The grass is always greener on the other side and when you get there it's as brown and burned as you remembered it to be.

Answer 5

Get over him. It's not fair to the new guy that if your ex asked, you'd be in his bed tonight.