how do u say sorry to your best friend for taking her boyfriend?

Question

but she had 5 other guyz on the side

Answer 1

If she was really your "best" friend you wouldn't have done something like that.

Answer 2

I guess you all werent that close to begin with so this trust issue that will be between you will be nothing at all. Now if you all are in high school and she had been dating him for a week with 5 differnt guys on the side she may not care that much, but for instance they had been together for 2 years and she loved him at any point n their relationship well you might want to say sorry then run(sorry). So for future reference if you want to have a lasting bond with a friend dont go out or sleep with ANY of your friends ex's or for the matter ANY current b/f's. Good Luck telling her

Answer 3

Well, first off, if she really does have 5 other guys on the side, sorry doesn't even come into the picture, she obviously doesn't really care about that one guy. That being said, if you still feel like you should say sorry, just confront her at a conveniant time and explain that the two of you clicked, and you didn't think she would mind ( because she has 5 other guys). It's not like he was her soulmate.

Answer 4

Is she really someone you care about keeping as a friend? Sounds like she has low self esteem and no values, so how long before she screws you over? If you "took" her boyfriend, does that make you any better than she is? I guess you thought the guy was more important than keeping her as a friend. The idea in life is to treat others the way you want to be treated. Do you think she will trust you now? This is pretty messed up.

Answer 5

I'm assuming you are either in jr high or high school. I've been in your position before. I'd tell her your are sorry and either she'll understand that it was a mistake or she won't. Don't push her, that won't help the situation. If she doesn't accept your applogy then she probaly wasn't the friend you thought she was. Remember while you are young guys come and go but friends are supposed to be forever! Good luck!

Answer 6

it might have been a bad idea to take her boyfriend but i think that if you talk it out with both of them and explain to them that you understood that it was an awful thing to do, the might understand. if not, try to get your friends to talk to her for you. if worst comes to worst, tell a grownup ( i really don't know how old you are so that might be a little to cheesy) and see if they can help solve the problem. anyway...we learn from our mistakes. don't take it too hard...if she is your best friend she could forgive you if she understands.

Answer 7

I don't think you do. It's hard to stay friends with someone after they take your boyfriend. Whatever the circumstances. That's just life, people grow apart. Maybe it's better. I mean do you really want to be associated w/ someone who gets around like that?

Answer 8

Just tell her the truth, how you feel about the situation. If you hide your feelings for him it wouldnt be fair in your part too. If she still gets mad after you say sorry to her then tell her that it's also not fair of her to be so mad at you when she had 5 other guys. If she accused u of cheating she is cheating too.

Answer 9

You buy her flowers and an "I'M SORRY" card and take her out for ice cream.

I've actually done that, but it was over a pair of shoes I ruined, not a guy.

It worked for me, and they were expensive shoes. Way more expensive than a guy.

Answer 10

Why do you feel you have to apologize if she had other guys on the side? She should apologize to her boyfriend. She is not your friend. Find someone you can be friends with who is trustworthy.

Answer 11

That's a shame because a piece of a** should never comes between friends. Remember what goes around, comes around.