My ex & I have been working on getting back together after a year of being separated. At Christmas time I let her use my car to go see her daughter in Kansas & her mother in Arkansas. Well, she hooked up with an ex of hers in Kansas & her ex gave her $5,000 to buy a car with. She did not tell me anything about the trip, & I found out & confronted her about it & told her that she owed me an explantion. She said she wasn't any good good at words. I walked out of her place & told her that it was the ex or me and we have not spoken for two months. Now she has called me to see if I wanted to go the the Rodeo on Saturday & said that she would understand if I didn't go. I said that I would go. When she comes over to my place to go, should I sit her down & tell her, "now you still owe me an explantion about the trip at Christmas time?" What do all of you think???
2007-03-06 11:28:19 · 9 answers · asked by J.J. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You are taking this relationship much more seriously than she is. She likes your company and the things you can give or lend her. She has no commitment to you. You loaned her your car and got it back. I guess that's all she owes you. But if you expect more from the relationship than occasional companionship, forget it. Do you think the wear and tear on your car is worth that? Its up to you, it's your car. If not, don't loan it to her again.
2007-03-06 12:38:30 · answer #1 · answered by The First Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should give her some money like her other ex did, because right now I'm driving that car and it needs a bigger engine. I don't know why either one of you bailed on her, she gives great head, but her azz is a little big. Hang on.."hey bytch, go get me another beer"!! She doesn't listen too well, but damn what can you expect from a Kansas girl with ties to Arkansas.
2007-03-06 11:41:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does she owe you? she wasnt with you at the time, you may have had and still have the hots for her but that doesnt mean she needs to explain herself.
The girl is still approaching you, so there is something there dont take it for granted. See where things go after saturday night, if things start to get serious from then on and your considerd and item. Then bring it up, because its what happens when your commited to each other that matters more then when your not.
2007-03-06 11:35:06 · answer #3 · answered by amani_uni 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she's totally playing you. either she isn't the girl you used to know, or you weren't paying that much attention to the way she was playing you when you two were together. you see it as you're working on getting back together with her; yet it looks as though she's working your insecurities to play the upper hand in the relationship. if you two do get back together, if you haven't already, it won't be the relationship you used to know and it probably isn't worth your time. I'm sure she was good with words when she was talking to her ex ...
2007-03-06 11:36:12 · answer #4 · answered by collard greens with hash browns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What she did was wrong, but she's only human and well, we're not perfect. Even still, she owes you some kind of explanation. Don't grill her if you want a relationship but don't just let it drop either.
2007-03-06 11:33:36 · answer #5 · answered by qwerty 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go on with your life.
She doesn't sound like much more than a user to me.
2007-03-06 11:34:08 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ T O N I ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why step in that same pile of dog crap twice?
2007-03-06 13:15:34 · answer #7 · answered by jacquie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she played you.
there are many other fish in the sea.
good luck
xoxo
2007-03-06 11:36:04 · answer #8 · answered by DanceForJoy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don,t miss
2007-03-06 11:31:24 · answer #9 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋