I found some incriminating edvidence that made me suspect my boyfriend was cheating (or had the intent to cheat) but I haven't actually caught him in the act. I told him about this three times already, but I just discovered emails recently that led me to believe that he was going to actually cheat. What should I do since he keeps denying it?
2007-03-06 11:25:48 · 14 answers · asked by ndboscarello 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well cheating is always a difficult thing to contemplate. Why do some do it and others avoid at the risk of death. Statistics tell us that about 50% of all men have cheated and about 63% of all women, at some point during their life. I think that indicates human nature, not sin or weakness, so do what you want, but i don't ultimately think its the end of the world should either party have a little sex on the side.
Yes he is cheating, now ask yourself is it worth the end of your relationship?
2007-03-10 10:38:01 · answer #1 · answered by Boston Bluefish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not many people actually catch their mates in the act of cheating and of course he isn't going to admit that he's preparing to do it even if he is. If you really don't trust him and going outside of the relationship is a problem to you then you should save yourself the stress and breakup with him. However you should really consider the situation and try to put all of the pieces together before you do anything. Think of how the "clues" could mean that he is cheating and how they could be just a misunderstanding. Which ever position seems more realistic to you is the one that you should follow. Good Luck.
2007-03-06 11:32:06 · answer #2 · answered by Vince R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would sit down with him and show him the evidence you found, see what he says then. If he continues to deny it, then there is no point in dating him. Besides, if he cheats once, there is the likelihood that he'll cheat again and you don't need that.
2007-03-06 11:33:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're actually not married to this guy and you haven't any longer any ties to him. you have finished administration to offload him for NO reason in case you sense like it. You dont could have a reason. If it particularly isn't something you opt to be married to perpetually, eliminate it and locate it someplace else.
2016-09-30 07:30:43 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi confrontation is the best in this case.Make him know you are hurt and that he should stop it.if he doesnt treating him of breakup and find out his reaction about the issue of breakup.it will bring out his true colour.I think that will solve the problem for the time been.ggoodluck and paly cool.
2007-03-06 11:33:12 · answer #5 · answered by ebiyedinak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that u should e-mail the girl and see what she says and them show him but if this is a repting then u dont need to be with him you are way too good for him and obviously he cant handle someone as good az you
2007-03-06 11:37:26 · answer #6 · answered by shannapoo01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i can say from experience, don't wait to catch him. You will NEVER EVER get the images out of your mind. EVER. Get rid of him.
2007-03-06 11:29:34 · answer #7 · answered by Paul P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont' call someone your boyfriend if you don't trust them. Take that any way you want.
2007-03-06 11:28:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not married to him, you can dump him anytime you want. But if you've got evidence......then dump him.
2007-03-06 11:31:47 · answer #9 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur call.... make sure you kno what ur doing b4 u do it tho..... dont jump to any conclusions cuz ull regret it later
2007-03-06 11:28:51 · answer #10 · answered by BM33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋