My girlfriend and I went to her house after school. Her sister was in town and she said I could stay and play Xbox and that she would be back in an hour. Well anyway her Mom was there and started hitting on me. I thought it was funny and started going with it and then I ended up banging her. It's all good because I'm 18. Should I tell my girlfriend? I doubt her mom would come clean and tell her so I'm thinking I should never say anything about it.
2007-03-06 11:21:39 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok I think you should tell your girlfriend because if I was your girlfriend I would rather know now instead of finding out somewhere down the road.....first I think you should talk to her mom and tell her that you are going to tell her daughter what happened and tell her that she should come clean about it.... but then again I would NEVER forgive my own mother for banging my boyfriend......that would be a BIG problem.....But your girlfriend will thank you for your honesty but then probably be pretty pissed off at you and her mom... O and are her mom and dad still together?? because if they are i would RUN LIKE HELL if I were you because he will hate you for banging his wife.. well I know that was a pretty confusing paragraph and this is a really difficult question but I hope that my advice kinda helped!
2007-03-06 11:29:03 · answer #1 · answered by Lexie M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not tell her at all and if she confronts you with it deny deny deny. The more you deny the more it will be likely for here and here mom to get into an argument. This way your girlfriend would accuse her mom of being jealous and you can only win. Just be sure to put on you Oscar performance of outrage, insult and most importantly shock. This is a good thing.
2007-03-06 11:27:18 · answer #2 · answered by Roger89 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you do that? Do you care about your girlfriend at all? You are just like every other cheating person out there, and that is a terrible thing to do. Especially with your girlfriends mom!! That is sick! Trust me, telling your girlfriend right away is the only way that you could even possibly salvage your relationship. If you don't tell your girlfriend, she will find out on her own, and you will ruin your relationship with your girlfriend and the relationship between your girlfriend and her mom. If you are too scared to talk to your girlfriend, then talk to her mom and ask her to talk to your girlfriend about it.
2007-03-06 11:27:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not all good because you're 18. You're a selfish ***---e, and you better not tell your girl about it. Your best bet is to just leave that whole "Mrs. Robinson" situation behind and get away from both of them. Your girlfriend need a bigger and better man than one that would bang her mom. Men like you should be castrated!!!! Sleep on that!!!!!!
2007-03-06 11:27:53 · answer #4 · answered by TNP Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh, i think your girlfriend is going to be more surprised than angry. yeah, i doubt her mom will come clean too, so you should just not say anything. on the other hand, if you want to have an honest relationship with your girlfriend, i suggest you just tell her and get it over with. good luck, man.
2007-03-06 11:26:35 · answer #5 · answered by bugsandtweety 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's worth it to you then I suggest you give her that respect and let her be the judge if she believe you or not.
The mom probably deny it but at least you were man enough and have the respect to tell her. Now the mom is just a whore and a desperate hag!!!
2007-03-06 11:26:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for one you shouldnt have banged her because well that was cheating on your gf but i am sure you are going to hear plenty of that on here so yeah i am just going to tell you what i think you should do well if you are happy with your gf then well being smart is not telling her but to do the right thing is telling her and hoping that she will get over it and she will stay with you but well you just had sex with her mom i would be pissed if i found out but i would prolly still be your gf but thats just me if she is totally comfortable with you i would sit her down and explain to her what happened and also say it will never happen again and well yeah she will be mad and prolly break up with you but she will still have feelings for you so just wait and then try talking to her and see what she says she wont trust you for awhile but trust needs to be built up so if you love her yeah tell her
2007-03-06 11:32:18 · answer #7 · answered by youcantseeme2976 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do this at this time...maybe her mom is just going through a bad time in her life..a nervous breakdown...wait awhile..you may be in this same predictament yourself someday..show some compassion///sometimes the messanger (you) will get the blame..it happens ..as in "don't kill the messanger of the bad news"
2007-03-06 11:25:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, alls i got to tell you is that what in the world were you thinking? that was a bad choice. but i would tell your girlfriend, because if you dont, she will find out and be even more mad at you. trust me, a girl will find out secrets. do the right thing
good luck!
2007-03-06 11:26:08 · answer #9 · answered by jolie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is really sad. She has a mother that has to bang her daughters boyfriend. You should be ashamed of yourself. I hope your girlfriend finds out, dumps your **** and her mother's too. Have either of you no morals, etc??
Wrong!!
2007-03-06 11:26:22 · answer #10 · answered by Vanity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋