a year ago he held me till i slept because i was still upset w/catching my x cheating(they r mutual friends)he saw me a couple months after and told me i was killing him.My x warned him to stay away,so he kept his distance in respect.I have thought of him throughout the year and finally called him a few weeks ago(a year later) i told him he was eating me alive.He said he thinks im so beautiful and he had no idea.But he started dating someone a month ago and said its only fair that he tell me,but again told me i was so beautiful, so i was confused as to whether or not he likes me,so i told him to tell me to let it go,he said he cant,i told him he had to,again he said he cant and that im so beautiful.Im not sure if it has anything to do with him being friends with my brother and my brother is best friends w/my x(who i caught cheating on me)and i wonder if thats why he is afraid to start something w/me or if he is not interrested.Do you think he ever thinks of me?
2007-03-06 11:21:37 · 6 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he may have fond feelings for you, however, I don't think you should date him. He's friend's with your ex and your brother. Depending on how close you are with your brother, things could get sticky really quick. I have an older bro and I could not dare to date one of his friends. Besides, this guy has a girlfriend and if you start dating him, you've just invited drama into whatever type of relationship you may have with this person. You know what they say, "absence makes the heart grow fonder." Try not even caring what he says and stop even hanging around him (if you've ever hung out with him) and see if he comes around. If not, then it's better than having to deal with dramas and girlfriends (angry ones). Hope this helps. Good luck!
2007-03-06 11:32:40 · answer #1 · answered by ~Fire-Princess~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you are going through I go throught the same thing right now I do believe that the guy does think about you but he might be just holding himself back because maybe you met so much to him that he wanted to settle for less I know that it doesn't make since but the way guys think sometimes doesn't make since you will think about him off and on throughout well your life time but eventually it may hurt right now but you will find someone much better than he is. obviously he isnt as great as he seems if he cheated if it is met to be it will be
2007-03-06 19:31:07 · answer #2 · answered by Mandy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as if he's trying to use caution, not just because of your brother but also he's dating someone at this moment. I would continue to be friends and wait 2 see what happens with his relationship. forget everyone else!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-06 19:29:59 · answer #3 · answered by sweet p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, way to go for letting your X run things. Now you're screwed.
You made him wait for a year. Keep your fingers crossed on his new relationship and maybe it will run its course quickly.
2007-03-06 19:26:10 · answer #4 · answered by Sparky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i am sure he does from time to time prolly
2007-03-06 19:26:23 · answer #5 · answered by poohbear27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's thinking of you all the time!
2007-03-06 19:24:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋