My boyfriend and I just started dating, hes sweet, nice, caring, hot, funny, and smart but he asked if we could have sex and tape it. Then put online. Half of me says dump him then the other says Dont. What should I do?
2007-03-06 11:20:36 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
..AND put it online?? haha, wow. Well at least he asked you instead of just doing it without you knowing.
People get off on different things, obviously its an idea that turns him on. if it's not your thing, tell him and move on.
2007-03-06 11:23:18 · answer #1 · answered by HoneyLegs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a total pig, have sex and let him tape it and put it on line are you stupid??? Wake up, never and I do Never let any one disgrace you like that. He isn't sweet/nice/caring/hot/funny or even smart he is a total boob and a big jerk to put it mildly!!
Where is you self respect? Find some and dump him before he talks you into ruining your life. No REAL MAN would ever want a woman to do some thing that would disgrace her.
Find some one who respect you. Don't have sex with him, run don't walk and get as far away from you as you can.
I wish you the best of luck, use your head and don't do some thing such as what he wants you will regret it for the rest of your life.
I forgot, I have a friend who did a video with his girlfriend he let her keep th video after they broke up. Some how the tape got edited and it looked like he was with a man instead of her, it's now in video stores. Not nice at all, be afraid be very afraid!!
2007-03-06 11:27:51 · answer #2 · answered by Cindy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him! Tape it and put in online??? What an ******! I would never do that. The Internet is worldwide. Do want the world to see you having sex? I've just recently started having sex with my first boyfriend. He would never ask me to do something like that. It's one thing to tape it but to say he wants to put it online? That's just plain wrong. He would probably send it to all his friends to gloat. Don't do it. Think about it! Dump him. I know I would.
2007-03-06 11:25:55 · answer #3 · answered by ♀♥♂☮Trippy Hippie☮♂♥♀ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First just say no to the taping/online thing if you're not comfortable with it. Then you can think about the dumping issue later.
2007-03-06 11:24:52 · answer #4 · answered by rollo_tomassi423 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay first of all you shouldn't have sex until you are completly ready. When there is not a doubt in your mind. Second if he wants to tape it then dump him. That is not something you share with the world. It should be something special between the two of you.
2007-03-06 11:23:25 · answer #5 · answered by Bina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you should have sex while taping the whole thing and putting it online thats just plain weird think about all the perverted people out there that would get horny of your sex tape. But hey its your choice!
2007-03-06 11:24:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him, like NOW! Seriously. He doesn't respect you if he asked that. Whatever you do, do not have sex with him, even if you don't want it taped he could be sneaky and set up hidden cameras. And don't ever agree to be taped, it will come back to haunt you, I promise!
2007-03-06 11:23:22 · answer #7 · answered by nimo22 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump him if u dont he will have it posted all over the internet and then u will have to deal with people making fun of u for the rest of ur life. He is a pervert and u dont need to date him.
2007-03-06 11:26:02 · answer #8 · answered by Jessica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are, are what kind of girl you are, but for anyone? I would say dump him and tell all your friends what happened, in case they go with him. That's really wierd, like paris sex tape style. not so cute.
2007-03-06 11:23:26 · answer #9 · answered by ranchgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him and find a guy who will really care for you. Tape it and put it on the internet? What a jerk.
2007-03-06 11:23:35 · answer #10 · answered by Brent W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe your even asking.... you haven't even done it the first time and now he wants to put it on the internet? What a loser he is..... and remember...someday...it would come back to haunt you. How would you feel if you got married to a guy and he went into politics...and suddenly your tape comes up..... hmmm the end of a political career. Politics isn't the only thing that ca be affected.... your church, your job, your future children etc...
Lose the guy...he is a loser.
2007-03-06 11:25:49 · answer #11 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋