Okay, I am TOTALLY head over heals for this boy Chris Dills. He is sorta popular. Well, he is totally in love with these super pretty snobs that are SUPER popular and (not meaning to be rude) he has NO chance at ALL with them! I try flirting, he ignores. I ignore him, he notices me. Then, when he notices me, i act nice again and straight back to Mr. I-Don't-Know-You. Then, once i told him i didn't like him anymore and he got sad and depressed! WHAT IS HIS PROBLEM!?!? Does he like me but think if he went out with me it'd ruin his chances with a snob? I DESPERATELY need advice, and quick!!! He's about to make me SCREAM at him!!! (There is SOO much more to this!)
2007-03-06 10:59:33 · 10 answers · asked by ♣♥†♥♣ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey this guy ur talking about sounds like a total payer, don't go for these kind of guys, believe me you will end up getting hurt. I wouldn't like this to happen to you because it has happened to me and its not a great experience!! There are many more special and caring guys out there. Dont go for Chris he's just playing with and your feelings, first he ignores you then he gets sad because you told him you dnt like him anymore!! Trust me and dnt go for him, like I said before, I've been through this path and you will end up getting hurt.
2007-03-06 11:12:44 · answer #1 · answered by Rejected 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you answered your own question. Probably the reason you like him so much is that he ignores you. Same goes for him when you ignore him. People always want what they can't have. Same reason he's going for the girls you say are out of his league. I would say to keep playing hard to get and don't turn into Miss Nicey Nice as soon as he pays attention to you for 5 seconds. Also flirt with some other guys in front of him. Pretty soon he'll be jocking you, but don't be surprised if he's not all that attractive to you once he stops ignoring you. People are weird that way :-)
2007-03-06 19:06:40 · answer #2 · answered by Party Bum 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh god... Believe me, you are not in love with him. First of all, I'm guessing you're a teenager. And it sounds like you don't know him well at all. If he disrespects you, don't waste your time with him. You need to find someone else who would prefer you over the snobby, popular girls.
And, he's probably one of those boys that respond better to rudeness. He likes the chase, not the catch. That's why he pays attention to you when you ignore him, and he pays attention to the snobs because they ignore him.
2007-03-06 19:04:51 · answer #3 · answered by ....... 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does he like me but think if he went out with me it'd ruin his chances with a snob?
YES!!! HE IS PLAYING GAMES, DON"T MESS WITH A GAME-PLAYER, YOU WILL GET HURT IN THE END, ALWAYS!
2007-03-06 19:03:43 · answer #4 · answered by Isabella's Mommy Expecting #2 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He wants to string you along in case he can't get with one of the snobby girls. He doesn't want to date you because in his mind if one of the snobby girls does become interested in him then he wants to be available. He's playing games, and he doesn't sound like that nice of a guy. He's keeping you as his "back-up" and you are allowing him to do that. Cut him completely loose, and save your affection for a guy who will deserve it.
2007-03-06 19:08:45 · answer #5 · answered by nimo22 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why do you care if he's sad or depressed? Don't feel sorry for him, it's his problem. If he liked you in the first place he would've given you full attention.
2007-03-06 19:05:53 · answer #6 · answered by Eden 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well sweetheart if he ignoring u is because u dont no u existed make ya self known
2007-03-06 19:12:08 · answer #7 · answered by demon_bewitch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your dad needs to lock u in your room until u get a brain!
2007-03-06 19:10:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were him I would have ignored you too....
2007-03-06 19:08:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
life is very confusing....maybe its just peer presure....if he really is into u he would be"Mr. I-Don't-Know-You".
2007-03-06 19:04:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋