She tells me she isn't going out with anyone else, there is only one person she likes. She says she doesn't make out until she is in a relationship, yet we make out all the time, even since the first date. She tells me that she likes to go dancing, but makes a point to tell me she doesn't dance dance with other men.
We talked for a month online before we went out and have been seeing each other for about a month since then, so we have known each other for two months total. I get the feeling she is falling for me, she is really opening up to me, and comfortable around me. Her body language is there, pupils dialated, body always turned towards me, fluttering eye lashes, eye gazing, passionate kissing, tells me about herself all the time, keeps wanting to know more about me, etc. BUT...two weeks ago she had told me she had been hurt in the past and that it would be a while before she would be able committ to anything too serious.
I want to take things slow anyway, but what gives?
2007-03-06 10:56:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I told her we are just friends and she said no, she is not just my friend she is more than that. So I asked her what she is to me and she said she doesn't know.
2007-03-06 10:57:31 · update #1
I don't think she's trying to mess with you. I think she's really crushing on you and she wants you to know, but she's scared to tell you how she feels. She's dropping hints with the hope that you'll tell her how much you like her. It may be that she's afraid to commit, but I think it's obvious that she really wants to feel like you care about her and take her seriously.
2007-03-06 11:06:24 · answer #1 · answered by weirdiscomplimentary 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she feels you all are in a relationship, obviously, but just doesn't want to be hurt again, so she's got her guard up! She is just gun shy and wants to take it slow. She probably wanted you to say that you thought of her as more than just a friend, but you didn't, so that may be why she said she'd been hurt before! Just do what you have been doing and take it slow, because it sounds like you are on your way to very nice relationship! Good Luck!
2007-03-06 11:08:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax big boy. Sounds like you are moving too fast for her and she is trying to be nice. Slow down give the girl some room before you run her off. She obviously likes you or she wouldn't be kissing you. Go out with her and enjoy her company, show her a good time and stop stressing so much.
2007-03-06 11:06:35 · answer #3 · answered by Sunday P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say she really, really likes you. This sounds like the beginning of a great relationship, both of you have sense enough to take your time. Give each other space, be patient and this could be very good.
2007-03-06 11:02:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is obvious that she really likes you.. you probably make her flustered and she mixes up her words, but about the dancing thing... she probably likes dancing with her friends that are girls and her one and only, but thats it. when she says that she isnt going out with somebody it means that she just likes them but is not in a relationship. you should just tell her that ur confused and ask her what she really means by all these signs
2007-03-06 11:02:15 · answer #5 · answered by pointegurlie7706 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those are not actually mixed signals. I think you two are on the verge of an actual relationship.
2007-03-06 11:00:59 · answer #6 · answered by lisateric 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is playing head games, you have to watch out for the game-players. YOU will be hurt in the end. Be careful.
2007-03-06 11:00:40 · answer #7 · answered by Isabella's Mommy Expecting #2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her that you are confused on what she wants from you and that you like her and are ready for a relationship if she is.
best of luck.
2007-03-06 11:02:41 · answer #8 · answered by runningballerina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Giver her some time and keep doing what you are doing. Stay steady and she will come around.
2007-03-06 10:59:52 · answer #9 · answered by Paradox 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is stringing you along!! Move on!!
2007-03-06 11:00:19 · answer #10 · answered by somethingoranother 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋